We put a brave face on it but a lot of men are finding life hard these days – it’s moving so fast – we thought we knew our place and how to be. Nothing is solid any more. Trying is not the problem (though our women might tell us we are trying!). What are we missing? The exhaustion of trying new tricks and techniques is showing on our faces. There is a lot of quiet desperation and numbness in the men I meet.
I suggest what is missing is our skill to authentically ‘man up’. This is a different planet to the traditional pressure for men to stuff down their feelings, or the new age pressure to indulge them. This is about adult responsibility for everything in our life, starting with our feeling life and moving out from there to how we relate – with men and with women.
We will meet in a large Gloucestershire house with total immersion for 26 hours (residential). We will then move to another venue to meet women who will have been immersed in their own retreat. My challenge throughout our time together is to facilitate cleaning you out in places you hardly knew were ‘dirty’ so that by the time we meet the women, you are literally new-born.
You can trust that I have both been on and facilitated this journey many times and can absolutely assure you that, if you give yourself to the process, you will have never been more attractive both to women and to your own authentic heart than you are on Sunday afternoon and beyond. The flavour will affect you positively for ever
For practicals, see below.