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- [blog](https://secretgarden.co.uk/blog/) - Secret Garden; Boundless Freedom, Awakeness, Aliveness
- [How does Hawaiian lomilomi massage benefit you?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/how-does-lomilomi-benefit-you/) - Hawaiian massage or LomiLomi massage or Huna Massage, can bring very significant shifts in your life experience, allowing you freedom from old patterns of limitation and more of the natural happiness and freedom of being. Lomilomi will do all this for you – . Cleanse and detoxify, enhancing all homeostatic systems and organs of your body. ·
- [Lomi Lomi and Living a Soulful Life - what might happen for you on a lomi lomi retreat?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/lomi-lomi-and-living-a-soulful-life-what-happens-on-a-lomi-lomi-retreat/) - When you book a place on a LomiLomi retreat you may not consciously be intending to heal deep ancestral or childhood patterning in order to bring light into yo
- [Who are you?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/who-are-you-2/) - You are simply, wondrously, vast, boundless, empty fullness, unconditional love unfolding. What is, is perfection. Including suffering & challenge & delight. When oneness is seen, the ordinary is a miracle. The most mundane thing we can ever do is truly extraordinary. Love is what ‘you’ are. You are light. You are life. You are intelligence. This radiant
- [A testimonial from Rachel Irvine-Fortescue - Thank you Secret Garden](https://secretgarden.co.uk/a-testimonial-thank-you-secret-garden/) - Thank You Secret Garden For years I have been working on and off with different teachers and therapists and healers, attending a variety of different workshops, but it is only recently that I have found something that makes total sense, and also really 'works'. For me, Secret Garden workshops, retreats, trainings and one to one
- [A response to a question ...Do I create my isolation?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/56/) - a woman speaks of her isolation returning after a massive opening to glorious connection with life during the two weeks in and after a Secret Garden circle, and asking how she 'does it' -this isolation- to herself.... Joy responds ...Perhaps you don’t do it! .... Perhaps it simply arises, this moving in and out of feeling connection,
- [Transparency & Introverts   The importance of transparency](https://secretgarden.co.uk/transparency-introverts-the-importance-of-transparency/)
- [Brendans grief    We are with all that being human is](https://secretgarden.co.uk/brendans-grief-we-are-with-all-that-being-human-is/) - Joyful Loving is about beingness & relating to others You are not required to be or do anything a particular way It’s beautiful to be made love to & to cry We are working with all that being human is, you let us see you. To find out how Secret Garden could benefit you please
- [What has Self - Love got to do with it?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/self-love/) - This apparent world which is both real and unreal, both something and nothing, is simply love, aloha, unfolding. So to ‘love oneself’ and to always celebrate the precious life you are, is, in 'your' unfolding story, the first massive step towards being. There is no one, there is no separation, all there is is this,
- [What kind of feedback deepens intimacy?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/what-kind-of-feedback-deepens-intimacy/) - the BIG difference in quality feedback is it that it is feedback which has no attempt to control your experience in future or control your partner
- [Wilderness and Circles](https://secretgarden.co.uk/wilderness-and-circles/) - This is a short video made a couple of years ago, where Joy talks about the connections between wilderness and the circle. And the invitations from mud and treacherous well trodden paths! Circles are always wild, cannot be predicted because they are Life itself, energy moving in order to reveal what needs to be seen or
- [Awakening and Emotional Challenges](https://secretgarden.co.uk/awakening-and-emotional-challenges/) - Waking up can last hours, days, months. When contraction and pain returns, the personality can get hung up on trying, grasping or says ‘well what’s the point?’
- [She is in All - Man and Woman](https://secretgarden.co.uk/woman/) - Gender is not who you are-yet it appears to make a very big difference!
- [Clarifying Awakenings, The Witness & Freedom](https://secretgarden.co.uk/clarifying-awakenings-the-witness-freedom/) - Clarifying the differences between awakenings, witness consciousness and freedom is essential as there are many confusing teachings about these. If there is a contracted separate self, all that can be done is to make the life which appears to belong to someone more apparently pleasing. Freedom cannot be owned.
- [To Love](https://secretgarden.co.uk/to-love/) - ..the truth we are born to re-member, that life is light & joy - through embodied human-ness..even in tears & heartache. Love is all there is. This is awakeness
- [Choice; alchemical transformation or shutdown?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/choice-alchemical-transformation-or-shutdown/) - The video below is one glimpse of circle, Joy in tender conversation with a couple. I am asked frequently verbally and via email, 'What happens in circles?
- [Interview with Joy Hicklin-Bailey](https://secretgarden.co.uk/interview-with-joy-hicklin-bailey/) - Colin:- We first interviewed Joy Hicklin-Bailey way back in 2008, six years ago, just at the beginning of the Magic of Being, where we focused on her coaching work and her own spiritual journey. This time our conversation focuses on what is going on now for Joy, and what plans she has for the future.
- [Emergency and Emergence](https://secretgarden.co.uk/emergency-and-emergence/) - Grow through your current challenges & circumstances. Help others live simply, naturally & clear the ground of limits, blindspots & unnecessary suffering.
- ['You' is Unreal](https://secretgarden.co.uk/you-is-unreal/) - What happens if I say to you 'There is no such entity as You'? There is only (one-ly) Life. One expression. You are not in control. 'You' do not exist.
- [At the Heart of Sorrow](https://secretgarden.co.uk/at-the-heart-of-sorrow/) - Silent saboteur or sweet surrender...or life's invitation to wholeness?
- [Don't Get Lost in Fairyland](https://secretgarden.co.uk/dont-get-lost-in-fairyland/) - None of these stories of Covid-19 or climate change what is deeply true. Nor do they change the invitation I offer in Secret Garden.
- [Light and emptiness](https://secretgarden.co.uk/light-and-emptiness/) - I have been prompted to write this because of recent events in the Secret Garden community. I have so much respect for those who value their awakening ‘process’, commit to resolving ‘stickiness’ in their interactions, and take the openings they experience as a guide in future choices, behaviours and actions. And yet, life is wholly
- [To all Women & Men Who Value Awake Intimacy, a heartfelt address](https://secretgarden.co.uk/to-all-women-and-men-who-value-awake-intimacy/) - To all Women & Men Who Value Awake Intimacy, over their wanting to be right, over their defences and pain - a heartfelt address
- [Desolation is Wonder](https://secretgarden.co.uk/desolation-is-wonder/) - There’s only this. It’s the loudest whisper. It’s shouting, singing, exclaiming - in this desolation is the wonder. Wow, how amazing –there's sitting
- [Awake in Being, the deepest gift of falling in love](https://secretgarden.co.uk/awakeinbeingthedeepestgiftoffallinginlove/) - Maytime….delicious abundance and vitality abound and Karen asked me in a blog comment to write about falling in love and relationship…… The word ‘relationship’ implies the negotiation between two or more separate identities, two or more different perspectives. Your being in its purity, is not, cannot be, in relationship with another – infinity, being, knows no separation,
- [7 keys to Intimacy](https://secretgarden.co.uk/7-keys-to-intimacy/) - 7 Keys to Intimacy arose as I guided a committed ongoing group into deep, alchemical meeting. What a wonderful 4 days I just shared in the Joyful Loving circle
- [She is in All - and in both Man and Woman](https://secretgarden.co.uk/she-is-in-all-man-or-woman/) - She is in All - and in both Man and Woman Why we sit in same gender circles in Secret Garden When we invite men and women to sit in circles of their own gender
- [Sometimes the Unconscious is a Trickster](https://secretgarden.co.uk/sometimes-the-unconscious-is-a-trickster/) - The video below is one glimpse of circle, Joy in tender conversation with one man. I have been asked frequently recently, verbally and via email, 'What happens
- [The Glimpse - Live Like a Virgin](https://secretgarden.co.uk/the-glimpse/) - The video below is one glimpse of circle, Joy in tender conversation with one man. I have been asked frequently recently, verbally and via email, 'What happens
- [Felix talks about Circles](https://secretgarden.co.uk/felix-talks-about-circles/) - This is a short, beautiful video of a man voicing how very touched he is by the circle and structures. Notice how you feel as you listen to him talk about how much love he experienced. Circles are always unique and are highly experiential – they are about YOU, your freedom to live the fullness of being, ecologically
- [Forgiveness, Ho'oponopono, loss & the human journey - and your awakening & freedom](https://secretgarden.co.uk/forgiveness-hooponopono-how-they-relate-to-your-awakening-and-freedom/) - 'You', awake or unconscious, are Love & Freedom. You are not the thoughts or feelings. You are not the conditioned messages. You are Life itself. How do ho'opon
- [Why is it so hard for man to be The Lover? (Part 2)](https://secretgarden.co.uk/why-is-it-so-hard-for-man-to-be-the-lover-2/) - This second part of the post explores our relations as men to both our own and the collective unconscious. To have a good adult long term loving relationship
- [Why is it so hard for man to be The Lover? (Part 1)](https://secretgarden.co.uk/why-is-it-so-hard-for-man-to-be-the-lover/) - ‘The Lover’ is an archetypal energy & expresses healthily in a man who is in touch with his feminine, vulnerable, emotional side, loving sensual life & Eros
- [Most Intimate, Aliveness Moves, Stillness Listens](https://secretgarden.co.uk/most-intimate-with-aliveness/) - Being awake is a falling away of apparent solidity. When that ‘happens’, there is no one to see it, no one left to be happy about it. There is only what is. The naturalness that is, always, even in spite of the hologram of a seemingly separate self and its finite and limited world and its
- [The Natural Reality is Undivided](https://secretgarden.co.uk/natural-reality-is-undivided/) - Freedom, wholeness, cannot be 'got' or 'owned'. Nothing can ever be done to 'achieve' it. The Most Intimate message can apparently dissolve the trying.
- [When the Snow Melts](https://secretgarden.co.uk/when-the-snow-melts/) - Some people think they come to Secret Garden to make their lives work better. There is nothing wrong with that and no doubt that this happens - in spades! Far
- [What's Strictly got to do with Waking Up?!](https://secretgarden.co.uk/whats-strictly-got-to-do-with-waking-up/) - Why watch Strictly when I love silence & stillness at the end of a day? It may surprise you - Strictly has much in common with Secret Garden's awakening work
- [A Glimpse into a Circle](https://secretgarden.co.uk/a-glimpse-into-a-circle/) - This is a touching video of two women voicing the life that moved for them in a short Joyful Loving structure. Circles are always unique and are highly experiential-they are about YOU, your freedom to live the fullness of being, ecologically and sustainably, in your chosen life. Women and men flourish and blossom when they
- [The Simplicity of Sensational Life](https://secretgarden.co.uk/the-simplicity-of-sensational-life/) - Freedom, wholeness, cannot be 'got' or 'owned'. Nothing can ever be done to 'achieve' it. The Most Intimate message can apparently dissolve the trying.
- [What would be the point of you having a daily meditation practice?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/what-would-be-the-point-of-you-having-a-daily-meditation-practice/) - Recently, I was drawn to remind the participants of the current Being With All That Is ongoing group, that if they are moved to make the worldly story better-and there is nothing wrong with that!-how helpful a regular meditation and self-healing practice is, however simple. The beginning of the day is a good time and if
- [Your gateway into simply being?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/your-gateway-into-simply-being/) - I was deeply moved by someone who shared -in a closed ongoing group forum in the Secret Garden community – ‘I am less scared by the mystery of not knowing, so much is changing, like my cells are changing polarity. I’m giving up the fight…yet..I have had a lifetime of distractions in the form of
- [Fear of Freedom From Your Problems And Limits](https://secretgarden.co.uk/fear-of-freedom-from-problems-and-limits/) - Is it possible that Fear of Freedom From Your Problems And Limits holding you back from natural ease and wholeness?
- [Do you move with or against Life's Intelligence?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/do-you-move-with-or-against-lifes-intelligence/) - What if any unhappiness comes from unknowingly working against life's true purpose and indeed its 'intention'? Part of waking up (the painful part) is more awar
- [The Sack and The Evening Dress](https://secretgarden.co.uk/the-sack-and-the-evening-dress/) - In this response to a question, Joy points to the indescribable. The wonder of being. She talks about the 'me' which isn't separate from that wonder and yet appears to mask it in its quest to employ the strategies mind uses to avoid all that comes with the illusion of separation and the sense of contraction.
- [What if resistance is your lover this moment!](https://secretgarden.co.uk/what-if-resistance-is-your-lover-this-moment/) - Recently some of my one to one clients & those who have written to me recently directly, or indirectly via the online forum, have been unhappily stuck in resistance. I am writing this for you if you can at times feel like a ball of resistance, whether this was or is conscious for you or was or is unconsciously
- [How Can You Grow Love in Your Life this Spring?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/how-can-you-grow-love-in-your-life-this-spring/) - Relationships take many forms. Some people thrive with one mate for life, some enjoy having several lovers, some prefer to live alone and yet still relate to colleagues or friends, some experience a few intense relationships during their lifetime. Becoming conscious about what you need at each point in the spiral of your life smooths
- [Mind & Emotion or Alchemical Gold?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/mind-emotion-or-alchemical-gold/) - Facing into the pain and vulnerability that lies underneath what the mind wants to transfer to the intimate other, that is, project outward. All defences are about blaming another for pain and then finding a way not to feel.
- [The Religion of the Individual](https://secretgarden.co.uk/the-religion-of-the-individual-and-becoming/) - Boundless freedom, the sweet emptiness of life as it is, and the creative projections and mechanisms of the separate self. The made up story.
- [Agenda-Free Aliveness](https://secretgarden.co.uk/agenda-free-aliveness/) - Agenda-free aliveness and boundless freedom can be drawn to work with apparent people in healing and transformational environments. No-one can do anything to become free. In the story, facilitation can be effective in supporting the separate self to make the life they think belongs to them better.
- [Ineffable Love](https://secretgarden.co.uk/ineffable-love/) - Circles are always unique and are highly experiential – they are about YOU, your freedom to live the fullness of being, ecologically and sustainably, in your chosen life. Realisation of the unconditional love of Being is not a new age ‘love and light’ fluffiness and denial of ‘reality’. Wholeness is unconditional love because it allows the play
- [The Insistent Me](https://secretgarden.co.uk/the-insistent-me/) - Wholeness is unconditional love ….. it is the play of everything. Including the insistent and demanding nature of separate self. Realisation of the unconditional love of Being is not a new age ‘love and light’ fluffiness and denial of ‘reality’. Pain or war or unconsciousness and all the shadows of shame, fear, guilt and rage
- [Death, Loss and Endings](https://secretgarden.co.uk/death-loss-heartbreak-endings/) - The bottom line This life and the apparent creation everywhere cannot be possessed. ‘You’ are not separate from anything that appears in manifestation. Energy expresses as every single possibility and it is constantly changing. Energy is a shapeshifter, a dancer. So everything you love, everything you want to keep, everyone you want to hold to
- [Being Honest](https://secretgarden.co.uk/being-honest/) - This is a guest blog from Tim my beloved life partner, who plays an essential part in Secret Garden both in the background between groups and supporting me and co-facilitating during them. Tim wanted to contribute on this subject that, as you will see, is close to his heart. Read more about Tim at Being
- [Gratitude](https://secretgarden.co.uk/gratitude/) - We all have many things it is so easy to be grateful for – food on the table, shelter, a society more safe and stable than many. A beautiful practice is to recall on waking each morning some of the thing you are already grateful for. This will make real shifts in your vibration very
- [Polarity is inevitable - yet a rose doesn't argue with the wind](https://secretgarden.co.uk/polarity-is-inevitable/) - World and nature Polarity and dualism are what the world and mind- as opposed to the natural reality of being – comprises. World is created by and mirrors mind (as opposed to nature). Polarity is endlessly expressing in this unfolding dream which is real and unreal. Full embrace of this polarity (which is always impossible
- [The Power and Beauty of Vulnerability](https://secretgarden.co.uk/the-power-and-beauty-of-vulnerability/) - ‘You’ are the pure being that allows all experience to be, without condition. Vulnerability is a beautiful quality of being. Being is endless, infinite. Vulnerability allows a sharing and celebration of the depths of that ocean of being, the currents of which are generally hidden from view by the defence and role play of the separate self. A human being who
- [Living beyond blame](https://secretgarden.co.uk/living-beyond-blame/) - Do you act, speak, feel as though you are 100% responsible for your life? If so, then you respond authentically and with wholeness, totality in the moment rather than with robotic conditioning. Before taking full responsibility, many people play the role of the victim and blame their circumstances or other people for their circumstances and concerns. Such projections distort
- [The Alchemical Power of Honesty in Awakened Intimacy](https://secretgarden.co.uk/306/) - One of the most important tools you have in the potentially lifelong exploration of loving joyfully, in which intimacy is an awakening, is honesty – radical, uncompromising, totally compassionate honesty. This may sound controversial – but it seems clear that in this modern culture it is less common to wish to love oneself, life and those we
- [Death and rebirth](https://secretgarden.co.uk/death-and-rebirth/) - It was satisying that Return to Source, a workshop http://being.secretgarden.co.uk/Returntosource.html I normally offer in November, could happen at Easter this year. Death fully faced always brings the resurrection. This is a journey I would love everyone to experience, including all our world leaders! Death is ignored or run from by many in our culture. ‘You’ are encouraged to cover over the
- [Boundaries  - made up, yet vital for a happy 'story' Part 1](https://secretgarden.co.uk/boundaries-made-up-yet-vital-for-a-happy-story/) - Boundaries are ‘made up’ – yet vital for a happy story…what do I mean? This is such a vast subject. and I will touch on just a few aspects here. Healthy boundaries are vital for happiness in life, perhaps especially in the realms of family life and intimate relating. Boundaries change over time and in
- [The Journey of Relationship](https://secretgarden.co.uk/the-journey-of-relationship/) - Here is a video from one of the always-new Joyful Loving Weekends – “The ‘Journey’ of Becoming Joy & Love” – find out how each aspect of the five aspects of the territory of intimate relating – urges the evolutionary impulse towards consciousness and then awakening, beyond wanting, hurt, loss, disappointment and conflict. I hope
- [How do Men and Women end the battle that can happen in relating and Celebrate the Wedding?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/how-do-men-and-women-end-the-battle-and-celebrate-the-wedding/) - How do Men and Women end the battle that can happen in relating and Celebrate the Wedding? In the appearing story of being human, a healing of wounded masculine and wounded feminine can happen. In the marriage, which is the end of duality and inner and outer battling, Life endlessly makes love without condition or agenda,
- [Unbounded Aliveness](https://secretgarden.co.uk/unboundedaliveness/) - There are no ‘solutions’ to the whirligig of pleasure & pain except the sublimity of being. Into the nature you are beyond the trance of personality identity.
- [What if this were a miracle wake up call?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/what-if-this-were-the-wake-up-call/) - Sometimes when I am in a circle or a session one to one with a client or in a couples session there can be sharings where there is an underlying assumption of ‘I shouldn’t be feeling this,’ Im wrong to feel this,’ ‘something is wrong with my life if I feel this,’ ‘I must fix
- [The body - love, joy, respect](https://secretgarden.co.uk/the-body-love-joy-respect/) - This Lomi Lomi retreat can, if there is resonance and openness, bring realisation of what 'you' actually are, Life itself. Limitless aliveness and consciousness
- [Boundaries  - made up, yet vital for a happy 'story' Part 2](https://secretgarden.co.uk/boundaries-made-up-yet-vital-for-a-happy-story-part-2/) - How do you refine your capacity to clarify and communicate your boundaries? Without healthy and clearly expressed boundaries that we know we will maintain, life can be an overwhelm of resentment, unexpressed rage that is toxic to the body and those close to us. The natural, instinctive, healthy response to an invasion of a boundary is
- [Laughter is egg-cell-ent](https://secretgarden.co.uk/laughter-is-egg-cell-ent/) - The gorgeous belly laughter and gentler humour that happens in circles is such a delight. Laughter is great medicine for both body and spirit. It’s the lightness and gratitude for good company that means letting go and love are easy. When you play this video – which you might keep in an inbox folder because
- [The Ultimate Initiation](https://secretgarden.co.uk/the-ultimate-initiation/) - Joyful Loving is the preparation for the possibility of union, the Inner Marriage – the endless dance of masculine and feminine is All – one, Life endlessly makes love without condition or agenda, for no reason.
- [Burn through the myths you have been mis-sold and watch your life flower!](https://secretgarden.co.uk/burn-through-the-myths-about-love-intimacy-and-connection/) - Burn through the myths about love, intimacy and connection and watch your life flower! You have been mis-sold! We are not educated well at all about love or freedom in our mainstream culture. What this lack of understanding does is create huge amounts of necessary pain & suffering and many spoiled lives. Let’s bust some very common and
- [Loss and Wonder](https://secretgarden.co.uk/loss-and-wonder/) - In beingness, there is no problem. There is no suffering, no conflict, no lack. Only what is arising, full on! In the appearance, when a separate ‘you’ begins to relate to others and the mind has attached to ideology about how things should be or how people should behave, or has held on to memories, and to unwanted or wanted
- [Love or Attachment?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/love-or-attachment/) - As you become free-er of limiting conditioning and ideology, as your I is a less fixed identity, so relationships inevitably change. Sometimes those who participate in groups or sessions worry that the increased freedom and letting go, the dissolving of the stories, is also going to undermine the loving connection. But the opposite is true
- [A Very Real Pot of Gold at the End of the Rainbow – Your Secret Garden A magazine article by a participant](https://secretgarden.co.uk/a-very-real-pot-of-gold-at-the-end-of-the-rainbow-your-secret-garden-a-magazine-article-by-a-participant/) - I don’t quite know where it began, but something led me to Secret Garden. As a child I loved the idea of there being a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow, and I loved the magic of it – that you could never find the pot of gold because the end of
- [Celebrate Yes and No](https://secretgarden.co.uk/celebrate-yes-and-no/) - Allowing your yes and no fully, moment by moment, improves relating & deepens intimacy. https://secretgarden.co.uk/backup/joyful-loving-courses-and-events/
- [Healing core sexual wounds - a man speaks](https://secretgarden.co.uk/healing-core-sexual-wounds-a-man-speaks/) - S – Feelings come up when I feel energy move in my body especially around my sex centre and if I feel activity there I feel ‘what’s happened here?’ I can sit on it and deny that that’s happening…..but then I was thinking I feel it’s me projecting saying it’s good if i’m like this
- [Cheltenham talk 3 - shift into sensitivity & transparency](https://secretgarden.co.uk/cheltenham-talk-3-shift-into-sensitivity-transparency/) - Dropping Sensitivity Transparency Showing up in our human Vulnerability does its own healing & creates intimacy The mind fears an endless ocean of endless unpredictability Do you know how to make intimacy and connection happen in your life?
- [The man who denied his balls, lost his balls then found them again](https://secretgarden.co.uk/the-man-who-denied-his-balls-lost-his-balls-then-found-them-again/) - Once upon a time not so very long ago, there was a man who longed for woman’s beauty and smell and sensuality in his life. He ached to bury himself in her arms and breasts. He longed for her caress. He wished to make a beautiful and comfortable home with her. He wanted to f-k
- [What grows in a Secret Garden spring? A short tale of 2 ongoing groups](https://secretgarden.co.uk/what-grows-in-a-secret-garden-spring/) - It has been a very rich spring in this Secret Garden! The groups have been as rich and alive and glorious as the humming of life all around in our gardens, countryside and wilderness. Two circles –the Joyful Loving ongoing group and the Being With All That Is ongoing group the following month –were so powerful
- [Independence, resistance, and the 'shield's' response to conflict](https://secretgarden.co.uk/independence-resistance-and-the-shields-response-to-conflict/) - Joy talks to a woman who is finding work and relating difficult after a Secret Garden retreat Your armour of independence, wanting to do things your way, have your own way, is absolutely fine. Except that in this profound work of dismantling what isn’t truth and love, it has no place it can survive. The
- [Woman's rage! A Response from Joy to the bwati ongoing group egroup](https://secretgarden.co.uk/a-response-from-joy-to-the-bwati-ongoing-group-egroup/) - I felt so happy to read this egroup letter. It is a momentous theme and several women in the egroup have been nudging at the same one. What has happened here though, (Woman's name), is a completion of a very common (in wounded human beings) cycle. Often though that completion -which carries the seeds of
- [Sex is Life, Life is sex - How does this help you have a rich and ever-fresh love life?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/sex-is-life-life-is-sex-how-does-this-help-you-have-a-rich-and-ever-fresh-love-life/) - Sex is Life, Life is sex. All creative expression in life, all beingness, has sexual energy at its root. Life is simply the interplay of masculine and feminine energy. Life is a dance of masculine consciousness and feminine light. How does this esoteric or archetypal knowing help you have a rich and ever-fresh love life?
- [How does consciousness in your lovemaking grow you?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/how-does-consciousness-in-your-lovemaking-grow-you/) - The energetic exchange that happens in conscious lovemaking is a gateway to, and creates energy for, profound transformation. At this time, it is perhaps appropriate for spiritual values to be lived in ordinary life, to be celebrated in marriage or deep intimate meetings between lovers, rather than to live them only in monasteries and nunneries. The
- [Big men are real enough to feel!](https://secretgarden.co.uk/big-men-are-real-enough-to-feel/) - Recently I was working with a couple for the first time who, by virtue of their background in therapeutic work and facilitating tantra groups, could have been expected to deeply 'know the territory' when it came to relating and intimate communication. However assumptions are dangerous. Their marriage was in a very dire state. It was quickly clear
- [3 things you might look into to deepen intimacy now](https://secretgarden.co.uk/3-things-you-might-look-at-to-deepen-intimacy-now/) - I wrote an unedited version of this recently to the egroup of an ongoing group and realised it might resonate for some of you…All names have been changed. Some fundamental themes which are core to this Joyful loving exploration we are engaged in have arisen recently. For all of you it might be rich to
- [Tenderness, courage and trust](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tenderness-courage-and-trust/) - To an e circle - I know some of you have faced strong challenges since we were together. Living your life aligned with love and truth - this first duality in being and human consciousness - is only possible if you live your natural courage and trust and tenderness. Your mind does not wish this,
- [Love may see](https://secretgarden.co.uk/474/) - Inspired by an exchange in a current training egroup When there is a rise to fight, in this dream, there is a danger of becoming entangled in the apparent other’s story. When another’s heart truth is truly let in, fully received, when there is an absolute resting in the truth that this is simply the
- [What is a Secret Garden circle?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/what-is-a-secret-garden-circle/) - Secret Garden circle work and shamanic work are a profound call to stillness, silence, deep work and self-inquiry for those who are looking for deeper fulfilment in their lives and an awakening of or deeper realisation of the truth of who they are. This is spiritual work that is authentic, sane, potent, grounded, and full of passion
- [The Joyful Loving work– How YOU Can Live Awakened Intimacy](https://secretgarden.co.uk/328/) - A man who was considering whether to participate in the upcoming Joyful Loving ongoing group said to me recently, ‘Shouldn’t exploring love be a private matter-and what is the point anyway? Shouldn’t love come naturally? Isn’t there just something wrong with me that I don’t know how to give love always?’ He seemed to feel
- [what is aloha?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/what-is-aloha/) - Aloha is inner silence, empty of belief, story, judgement. Sunshine sings it, rain falls through it, winds breathe it, trees are moved by it, the earth rolls with it, children grow with it, the ocean churns it, bodies may love it into beingness. Aloha is Spirit beyond form, the soul of creation. Aloha is silence,
- [Walking in the man-woman shadows](https://secretgarden.co.uk/walking-in-the-man-woman-shadows/) - Joy talking with a circle and to a woman, after a challenge from a woman to one of the men. 'Your rage against man and not getting what you thought you wanted is glorious -and not the truth. Your rage against man’s ability to let go more easily, his ability to be sexual without falling
- [What do we do when we feel rejected or a failure?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/what-do-we-do-when-we-feel-rejected-or-a-failure/) - Joy speaks to a distressed man at the end of a Joyful Loving gathering. He has courageously voiced his pain about rejection by women (encouraged by the men’s circle) but he doesn't believe his receiving of love in the training will translate to his life outside of it. He feels he can't relate the same way in his
- [What is Joyful Loving about?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/what-is-joyful-loving-about/) - Joyful Loving courses are designed to deepen your experience of what true love is, and to help every relationship -with family, partners, children, colleagues, with your own self. be happier, kinder, more enjoyable, and more loving. You become wide open to love and create new love relationships You successfully pinpoint your own major life-lessons in the
- [Can a personality love?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/can-a-personality-love/) - Joy writes to a participant about the fear of love - In a Joyful Loving circle, where we are exploring being and what that means in an area (sex, relationship, love) where our culture is most wounded, most judgemental and mixed up, most permissive (in the incorrect use of the word), misinformed, greedy and licentious,
- [Cheltenham talk 1   Intimacy](https://secretgarden.co.uk/cheltenham-talk-1-intimacy/) - An invitation to the depths How personality resists & defends against it A meeting of two nobodies There is love or there is fear in embodied experience on the planet Beyond time Intimacy is to not know anything
- [right or wrong, let's meet](https://secretgarden.co.uk/right-or-wrong/) - Let's meet beyond any thoughts of what is right or wrong, feeling what is felt, knowing the awe-ful aloneness in it, we choose to connect, to discover what is here, to celebrate being together. You can find opportunities here
- [Cheltenham talk 2   Boundaries](https://secretgarden.co.uk/cheltenham-talk-2-boundaries/) - Intimacy is dangerous Learning to set boundaries How boundary setting can create conflict Unconscious fear of loss Learning to communicate boundaries Looking after what is precious
- [Wishing you all a heart and soul filled Christmas season and a very happy new year](https://secretgarden.co.uk/wishing-you-all-a-heart-and-soul-filled-christmas-season-and-2012/) - Dear participants and those who may participate in Secret Garden in future I write in deep gratitude for the love and friendship shared between us and offered to those I write to whom I haven’t yet met. Thank you all for valuing what cannot be measured. It is such a testament to your care and
- [A response to ....Am I self-indulgent to want to go to a Secret Garden gathering again?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/a-response-to-am-i-self-indulgent-to-want-to-go-on-a-retreat/) - There are times in life when it is right, natural, appropriate and wonderful for you to focus almost primarily on spiritual ‘growth’, looking more deeply into life that western culture encourages and opening to the possibility of the no-thing and everything of being. Once you taste awakening, though it is clear in that awakeness that there
- [Dare you trust the creativity and infinite possibility of the simple?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/dare-you-trust-the-creativity-and-infinite-possibility-of-the-simple-2/) - How would it be to ask yourself 'what can I do to make my day or week or year simpler?' How can I rearrange my current life experience so that it brings me more joy and less stress? Have the courage to trust simplicity and let it enrich the joy in your life. Hawaiian Huna
- [Who are you?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/who-are-you/) - Working with Secret Garden will give you space to explore how to live a spiritually awake life that is also an embodied happy, authentic, earthly, natural one.
- [How to make the love that you are - physically](https://secretgarden.co.uk/87/) - You are Love. Life is love, unfolding in myriad forms. You deeply know how to 'make' love. Love, sex, sacredness naturally go very well together, whatever your old stories from earlier relationships or your current one. Deep ongoing intimacy and beautiful, powerful sex on a ongoing basis requires commitment, clear communication, education, energetic sensitivity and loving
- [Why haven't I progressed as much as I was expecting/hoping?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/why-havent-i-progressed-as-much-as-i-was-expectinghoping/) - ''Why havent I progressed as much as I was expecting/hoping. It seems that I have discovered and moved so many other aspects of myself (all good) but ...'' Joy replies, This Secret Garden exploration of beingness is not about quick fixes (I know you know this). It is about coming home to your nature; both as
- [Why is this relationship hurting when I thought it would heal me?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/why-is-this-relationship-hurting-when-i-thought-it-would-heal-me/) - To make love with a man or a woman is.....strong stuff. A very very strong bond is made whether it is known consciously or not. And that bond will create opportunities for healing, relaxation and nourishment and deep energetic connection which will lead to creative soul growth for both too. So human beings are drawn
- [The Alchemical Wedding](https://secretgarden.co.uk/the-alchemical-wedding/) - A dear male friend from an ongoing group wrote this in the egroup recently about how he used to think about marriage....''could I do better, would this other personality be a better fit, is she the right one,....?'' and a dear female friend from the same ongoing Joyful Loving circle replied to him in the egroup
- [Who comes to Secret Garden?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/who-comes-to-secret-garden/) - Many people who come to circles are ‘at the end of the road’ of a long journey of personal growth or exploration of advaita or shamanism. They speak of how they have never before experienced this unique Secret Garden combination of human vulnerability and realness and the energetic release beyond the personality’s limits into nothing and everything. An alchemical soulful fusion of
- [Beingness](https://secretgarden.co.uk/beingness/) - Beingness is. when we add time or place we miss it. https://secretgarden.co.uk/backup/events
- [What can thwart intimacy?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/what-can-thwart-intimacy/) - What can thwart intimacy? Denial and repression…the desire to repress life and control life, the desire to transcend life, the desire to die The importance of moving and expressing for YOU Drop the desire to fix it outside Come into full presence You can learn and experience so much at a live event – join
- [What does it mean about and for you that you sit in a Secret Garden circle?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/what-does-it-mean-about-and-for-you-that-you-sit-in-a-secret-garden-circle/) - Our shared humanity….beyond roles Being fully human and its price Making conscious miracles Don’t dumb down Feel deeply – but the paradox is the feelings aren’t the deepest reality Head games Let yourself be touched here
- [What do we do when we feel rejected or a failure](https://secretgarden.co.uk/what-do-we-do-when-we-feel-rejected-or-a-failure-2/) - A man courageously voiced his pain about rejection by women (encouraged by men’s circle) but he doesn’t believe his receiving of love in the training will translate to his life outside of it. Joy’s response… Love one’s own being If you are willing to fail you can fail then try again Mass hypnosis that failure
- [The only way forward is in – living the shadows of relationship](https://secretgarden.co.uk/the-only-way-forward-is-in-living-the-shadows-of-relationship/) - The pain of resentment – go in, Know the shadow material is yours Feel the pain & sludge You are perfect mirrors for each other, nature’s invitation to heal the past in the conditioned self The mistake is to think it’s the other’s duty to do something to solve it – be your own healer!
- [Hawaiian Lomi Lomi Massage](https://secretgarden.co.uk/hawaiian-lomi-lomi-massage/) - A demo of the basic back strokes you can learn at a Secret Garden Lomilomi retreat. To find out how Secret Garden could benefit you please visit secretgarden.co.uk
- [The paradox of beingness beyond stories & the feeling body + why intimacy feels so frightening](https://secretgarden.co.uk/the-paradox-of-beingness-beyond-stories-the-feeling-body-why-intimacy-feels-so-frightening/) - how instead of beauty & intimacy suffering can be created by the personality’s longing & lack. To find out how Secret Garden could benefit you please visit secretgarden.co.uk
- [Mr Grumpy and the screaming banshee transformed at the heart](https://secretgarden.co.uk/mr-grumpy-and-the-screaming-banshee-transformed-at-the-heart/) - Joy refers to an invitation to notice where the masculine cuts across the feminine & how to give feedback Men’s holdbacks likely to be pride & resentment so likely to feel those as they explore invitation Mr Grumpy Woman doesn’t need to become a screaming banshee – Your power resides in your heart The grit
- [A few reflections       lovemaking in consciousness](https://secretgarden.co.uk/a-few-reflections-lovemaking-in-consciousness/) - Making love in consciousness, in being – paying attention to the most intimate Lovemaking as meditation What happens in transformation of man’s penis The pressure man can feel to perform, get release, please woman Man’s deep vulnerability Making love with no conditions
- [Why do men withdraw from women?](https://secretgarden.co.uk/why-do-men-withdraw-from-women/) - One reason for male withdrawal can be this. When woman is upset or disappointed in her man (especially over weeks, months or years) her attempts to wake man up to what disturbs her, are misguided if they happen when she is emotionally disturbed & driven by an agenda, rather than present & available to receive

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- [What You Say about Being Ongoing Group](https://secretgarden.co.uk/what-you-say-being-ongoing-group/) - Unconditional love in its highest expression, I never saw anything like it in my entire life ~ Susana J, England The Most Intimate Videos Watch Joyful Loving Videos What You Say Words What You Say Watch Watch Being Videos What You Say about Being Ongoing Group – Rediscover the Joy in Being Thank you so much
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- [What You Say about Return to Source](https://secretgarden.co.uk/about-secret-garden/what-you-say/return-to-source/) - Wonderful, profound, brilliant, touching beyond words ~ Tracey Gann, Oxford The Most Intimate Videos Watch Joyful Loving Videos What You Say Words What You Say Watch Watch Being Videos What you Say about Return to Source – the ultimate journey Just wanted to drop you a line to say how much I gained from the weekend,
- [Joyful Loving Ongoing Group Testimonials](https://secretgarden.co.uk/joyful-loving-courses-and-events/joyful-loving-ongoing-course-details/joyful-loving-ongoing-testimonials/) - What participants say about the Joyful Loving ongoing Groups - review - does it change their lives? extraordinary and humbling
- [Being](https://secretgarden.co.uk/being/) - Imagine..being in a circle that serves the highest potential of your humanity - realise the joy & wonder of being. Ongoing exploration of awakeness & aliveness
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- [What You Say about Retreats](https://secretgarden.co.uk/about-secret-garden/what-you-say/what-you-say-about-secret-garden-retreats/) - One of the best retreats that I have ever attended. The venue & food were great. There was a lot of good bonding (during the b & b at your home). Very good atmosphere. I found myself going very deep in both the giving and receiving which was amazing. I felt liberated and free. ~
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- [Essence Online Courses - What You Say](https://secretgarden.co.uk/essence-online-what-you-say/) - I haven’t felt this kind of joy since being a child—for no reason, it just arises! ~ Dawn Olsen, Brighton How People Like You Rate Joy Hicklin-Bailey’s Essence Online Explorations – Rediscover your Joy in Being The freedom it has given me to know, even as I've 'known' before but this time it's different, is that I
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- [Joyful Loving Secrets of Awakened Intimacy](https://secretgarden.co.uk/joyful-loving-secrets-of-awakened-intimacy/) - Qualities that can help you create awakened intimacy
- [Essence - Forgiveness - Module 0](https://secretgarden.co.uk/essence-members-forgiveness-module0/) - Essence Forgiveness – Module 0 Your joy in being arises from the most intimate Your Pre-Course Assignments Let’s get started. 1. Find or buy an attractive journal or note book for this exploration & buy or recycle a ring binder for your downloadable workbook pages. You can brainstorm your answers to the invitations and questions below in your
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- [Essence; Your Joy and Freedom in Being - free webinar](https://secretgarden.co.uk/essence-free-webinar/) - Essence; Your Joy & Freedom in Being - Free webinar You are not your thoughts, your feelings or your stories. Discover how they dissolve in the joy of being.
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- [Essence - The Online Course - Module 0](https://secretgarden.co.uk/essence-members-module0/) - Essence – Module 0 Your joy in being arises from the most intimate Your Pre-Course Assignments Let’s get started. 1. Find or buy an attractive journal or note book for this exploration and buy or recycle a ring binder for your downloadable workbook pages. . You can brainstorm your answers to the invitations and questions below – and it
- [Essence - The Online Course - Module 6](https://secretgarden.co.uk/essence-members-module6/) - Essence – Module 6 Your joy in being arises from the most intimate Commit and take action with a regular routine with your private practice now!-it will be well worth the investment of time and energy. All your practical details are on Your Welcome Page. You can refer to Module 0 at any time for homeplay and important hints for supporting
- [Essence - The Online Course - Module 5](https://secretgarden.co.uk/essence-members-module5/) - Essence – Module 5 Your joy in being arises from the most intimate Commit and take action with a regular routine with your private practice now!-it will be well worth the investment of time and energy. All your practical details are on Your Welcome Page. You can refer to Module 0 at any time for homeplay and important hints for supporting
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- [consciousness](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/consciousness/)
- [crisis](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/crisis/)
- [death](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/death/)
- [energetic](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/energetic/)
- [energy](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/energy/)
- [Forgiveness](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/forgiveness/)
- [friendship](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/friendship/)
- [fundamental truth](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/fundamental-truth/)
- [growing soul](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/growing-soul/)
- [harmony](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/harmony/)
- [Hawaiian massage](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/hawaiian-massage/)
- [healing](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/healing/)
- [ho'oponopono](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/hooponopono/)
- [human vulnerability](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/human-vulnerability/)
- [humanity](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/humanity/)
- [huna](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/huna/)
- [intimacy](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/intimacy/)
- [isolation](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/isolation/)
- [keys to intimacy](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/keys-to-intimacy/)
- [life](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/life/)
- [light](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/light/)
- [lomi](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/lomi/)
- [Lomilomi](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/lomilomi/)
- [love](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/love/)
- [lovemaking](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/lovemaking/)
- [make love](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/make-love/)
- [male and female energy](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/male-and-female-energy/)
- [marriage](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/marriage/)
- [meditation](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/meditation/)
- [men](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/men/)
- [men's circles](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/mens-circles/)
- [mysterious](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/mysterious/)
- [mystery](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/mystery/)
- [mystical union](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/mystical-union/)
- [nature](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/nature/)
- [Oneness](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/oneness/)
- [orgasm](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/orgasm/)
- [porn](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/porn/)
- [presence](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/presence/)
- [rage](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/rage/)
- [relating](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/relating/)
- [relationship](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/relationship/)
- [resistance](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/resistance/)
- [resurrection](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/resurrection/)
- [retreat](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/retreat/)
- [Return to Source](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/return-to-source/)
- [royal wedding](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/royal-wedding/)
- [sacred sex](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/sacred-sex/)
- [sacredness](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/sacredness/)
- [sensual](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/sensual/)
- [sex](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/sex/)
- [sexuality](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/sexuality/)
- [shadow](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/shadow/)
- [shamanic circle](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/shamanic-circle/)
- [shamanism](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/shamanism/)
- [soul](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/soul/)
- [spiritual](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/spiritual/)
- [spiritual community](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/spiritual-community/)
- [Surrender](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/surrender/)
- [tantra](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/tantra/)
- [tantric sex](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/tantric-sex/)
- [tenderness](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/tenderness/)
- [touch](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/touch/)
- [transformation](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/transformation/)
- [trust](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/trust/)
- [truth](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/truth/)
- [unloved](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/unloved/)
- [wake up](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/wake-up/)
- [women](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/women/)
- [women's circles](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/womens-circles/)
- [feelings](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/feelings/)
- [Joy Hicklin-Bailey](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/joy-hicklin-bailey/)
- [Secret Garden](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/secret-garden/)
- [slowness](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/slowness/)
- [softness](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/softness/)
- [communication](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/communication/)
- [tuni...](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/tuni/)
- [Freedom](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/freedom/)
- [personality](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/personality/)
- [conditioning](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/conditioning/)
- [dullness](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/dullness/)
- [misery](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/misery/)
- [lack](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/lack/)
- [longing](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/longing/)
- [projection](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/projection/)
- [Massage (Field Of Study)](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/massage-field-of-study/)
- [LomiLomi Massage](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/lomilomi-massage/)
- [Hawaiian healing](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/hawaiian-healing/)
- [Kahuna](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/kahuna/)
- [Spiritual Development](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/spiritual-development/)
- [pride](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/pride/)
- [humility](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/humility/)
- [pain](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/pain/)
- [inner child](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/inner-child/)
- [inner baby](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/inner-baby/)
- [spirituality](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/spirituality/)
- [contraction](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/contraction/)
- [separ...](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/separ/)
- [the most intimate](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/the-most-intimate/)
- [esoteric lovemaking](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/esoteric-lovemaking/)
- [performance pressure](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/performance-pressure/)
- [erections](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/erections/)
- [sexual dysfunction](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/sexual-dysfunction/)
- [vulnerability](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/vulnerability/)
- [relationshi...](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/relationshi/)
- [tu...](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/tu/)
- [depth](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/depth/)
- [authenticity](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/authenticity/)
- [choice](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/choice/)
- [miracle](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/miracle/)
- [circle](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/circle/)
- [shamanic](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/shamanic/)
- [ta...](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/ta/)
- [Denial](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/denial/)
- [growth](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/growth/)
- [loss](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/loss/)
- [breath](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/breath/)
- [letting go](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/letting-go/)
- [liberation](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/liberation/)
- [boundless freedom](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/boundless-freedom/)
- [totality](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/totality/)
- [committment](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/committment/)
- [wounding](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/wounding/)
- [childhood trauma](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/childhood-trauma/)
- [archetypal](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/archetypal/)
- [mirrors](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/mirrors/)
- [manipulation](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/manipulation/)
- [pleasure](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/pleasure/)
- [transparency](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/transparency/)
- [massage](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/massage/)
- [essence](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/essence/)
- [self-healing](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/self-healing/)
- [gratitude](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/gratitude/)
- [stress](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/stress/)
- [celebrate](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/celebrate/)
- [connect](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/connect/)
- [aloneness](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/aloneness/)
- [boundaries](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/boundaries/)
- [compassion](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/compassion/)
- [innocence](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/innocence/)
- [one to one session](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/one-to-one-session/)
- [couple session](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/couple-session/)
- [breakthrough](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/breakthrough/)
- [psychotherapy](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/psychotherapy/)
- [lineage work](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/lineage-work/)
- [self-responsibility](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/self-responsibility/)
- [rejection](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/rejection/)
- [silence](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/silence/)
- [listening](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/listening/)
- [victim](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/victim/)
- [blame](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/blame/)
- [appreciation](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/appreciation/)
- [courage](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/courage/)
- [man](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/man/)
- [honesty](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/honesty/)
- [woman](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/woman/)
- [dream](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/dream/)
- [transmutation](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/transmutation/)
- [shame](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/shame/)
- [transmission](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/transmission/)
- [ambivalence](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/ambivalence/)
- [stuckness](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/stuckness/)
- [fight](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/fight/)
- [cycles](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/cycles/)
- [flow](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/flow/)
- [expansion](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/expansion/)
- [embodiment](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/embodiment/)
- [self enquiry](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/self-enquiry/)
- [gateway](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/gateway/)
- [inner conflict](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/inner-conflict/)
- [suffering](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/suffering/)
- [judgement](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/judgement/)
- [self-realisation](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/self-realisation/)
- [non-dual](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/non-dual/)
- [self-forgiveness](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/self-forgiveness/)
- [unconditional love](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/unconditional-love/)
- [self-love](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/self-love/)
- [awe](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/awe/)
- [therapy](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/therapy/)
- [interdependence](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/interdependence/)
- [alchemical marriage](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/alchemical-marriage/)
- [inner marriage](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/inner-marriage/)
- [Kali](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/kali/)
- [anger](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/anger/)
- [independence](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/independence/)
- [defence](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/defence/)
- [withdrawal](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/withdrawal/)
- [chants](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/chants/)
- [neurology](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/neurology/)
- [release](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/release/)
- [realting](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/realting/)
- [alchemy](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/alchemy/)
- [transfoirmation](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/transfoirmation/)
- [making love](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/making-love/)
- [controll...](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/controll/)
- [wholeness](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/wholeness/)
- [most intimate](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/most-intimate/)
- [awake](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/awake/)
- [happiness](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/happiness/)
- [let go](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/let-go/)
- [forgive](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/forgive/)
- [coaching](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/coaching/)
- [grace](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/grace/)
- [power](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/power/)
- [beauty](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/beauty/)
- [separeate self](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/separeate-self/)
- [committ](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/committ/)
- [duality](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/duality/)
- [will](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/will/)
- [laughter](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/laughter/)
- [initiation](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/initiation/)
- [boundary setting](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/boundary-setting/)
- [couple relating](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/couple-relating/)
- [cauldron](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/cauldron/)
- [lomi lomi](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/lomi-lomi/)
- [Buddha](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/buddha/)
- [buddhism](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/buddhism/)
- [Christianity](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/christianity/)
- [archetypes](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/archetypes/)
- [embodied awakening](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/embodied-awakening/)
- [polarity](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/polarity/)
- [dark](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/dark/)
- [non-duality](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/non-duality/)
- [terrorism](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/terrorism/)
- [climate change](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/climate-change/)
- [darkness](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/darkness/)
- [impermanence](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/impermanence/)
- [transcendence](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/transcendence/)
- [dismantling](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/dismantling/)
- [conscious relating](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/conscious-relating/)
- [heart](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/heart/)
- [chakras](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/chakras/)
- [aura](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/aura/)
- [purifying](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/purifying/)
- [sacred sexuality](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/sacred-sexuality/)
- [nuclear war](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/nuclear-war/)
- [war](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/war/)
- [learning](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/learning/)
- [grateful](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/grateful/)
- [being honest](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/being-honest/)
- [Tim](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/tim/)
- [responsibility](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/responsibility/)
- [embodied awakeness](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/embodied-awakeness/)
- [emotional](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/emotional/)
- [emotion](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/emotion/)
- [heartbreak](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/heartbreak/)
- [sadness](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/sadness/)
- [bereavement](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/bereavement/)
- [divorce](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/divorce/)
- [betrayal](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/betrayal/)
- [disappointment](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/disappointment/)
- [mourning](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/mourning/)
- [grief](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/grief/)
- [elements](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/elements/)
- [natural intelligence](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/natural-intelligence/)
- [feminine](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/feminine/)
- [men's work](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/mens-work/)
- [wonder](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/wonder/)
- [joy](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/joy/)
- [unconditional](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/unconditional/)
- [divine feminine](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/divine-feminine/)
- [awakeness](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/awakeness/)
- [awakenings](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/awakenings/)
- [witness](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/witness/)
- [detachment](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/detachment/)
- [supervision](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/supervision/)
- [accountability](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/accountability/)
- [waking up](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/waking-up/)
- [judgements](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/judgements/)
- [emotional reactivity](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/emotional-reactivity/)
- [mindfulness](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/mindfulness/)
- [opening](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/opening/)
- [intentional community](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/intentional-community/)
- [emotional intelligence](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/emotional-intelligence/)
- [acceptance](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/acceptance/)
- [limitation](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/limitation/)
- [self-inquiry](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/self-inquiry/)
- [masculine](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/masculine/)
- [body](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/body/)
- [wellness](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/wellness/)
- [relaxation](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/relaxation/)
- [Visioning](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/visioning/)
- [joyful loving](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/joyful-loving/)
- [awake relating](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/awake-relating/)
- [ideology](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/ideology/)
- [covid-19](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/covid-19/)
- [sustainability](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/sustainability/)
- [online](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/online/)
- [sorrow](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/sorrow/)
- [unconsciousness](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/unconsciousness/)
- [extraordinary ordinary](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/extraordinary-ordinary/)
- [coaching training](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/coaching-training/)
- [money](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/money/)
- [wealth](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/wealth/)
- [abundance](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/abundance/)
- [ease](https://secretgarden.co.uk/tag/ease/)

## Topic Tags

- [awakening; being;freedom; consciousness](https://secretgarden.co.uk/forums/topic-tag/awakening-beingfreedom-consciousness/)
- [Words of Joy](https://secretgarden.co.uk/forums/topic-tag/words-of-joy/)
- [Being!](https://secretgarden.co.uk/forums/topic-tag/being/)
- [Circle](https://secretgarden.co.uk/forums/topic-tag/circle/)
- [Joy](https://secretgarden.co.uk/forums/topic-tag/joy/)
- [On-Going](https://secretgarden.co.uk/forums/topic-tag/on-going/)
- [Group](https://secretgarden.co.uk/forums/topic-tag/group/)
- [On-Going Being Group](https://secretgarden.co.uk/forums/topic-tag/on-going-being-group/)
- [anima](https://secretgarden.co.uk/forums/topic-tag/anima/)
- [animus](https://secretgarden.co.uk/forums/topic-tag/animus/)
- [rage](https://secretgarden.co.uk/forums/topic-tag/rage/)
- [self-soothing](https://secretgarden.co.uk/forums/topic-tag/self-soothing/)
- [homeplay](https://secretgarden.co.uk/forums/topic-tag/homeplay/)
- [ho'oponopono](https://secretgarden.co.uk/forums/topic-tag/hooponopono/)
- [essence](https://secretgarden.co.uk/forums/topic-tag/essence/)
- [ho'oponopono letting-go](https://secretgarden.co.uk/forums/topic-tag/hooponopono-letting-go/)
- [From light into dark](https://secretgarden.co.uk/forums/topic-tag/from-light-into-dark/)

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- [let go](https://secretgarden.co.uk/product-tag/let-go/)
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- [silence](https://secretgarden.co.uk/product-tag/silence/)
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- [retreat](https://secretgarden.co.uk/product-tag/retreat/)
- [massage](https://secretgarden.co.uk/product-tag/massage/)
- [healing](https://secretgarden.co.uk/product-tag/healing/)
- [nourishment](https://secretgarden.co.uk/product-tag/nourishment/)
- [ho'oponopono](https://secretgarden.co.uk/product-tag/hooponopono/)
- [meditation](https://secretgarden.co.uk/product-tag/meditation/)
- [nature](https://secretgarden.co.uk/product-tag/nature/)
- [essence](https://secretgarden.co.uk/product-tag/essence/)
- [consciousness](https://secretgarden.co.uk/product-tag/consciousness/)
- [love](https://secretgarden.co.uk/product-tag/love/)
- [awakening](https://secretgarden.co.uk/product-tag/awakening/)
- [boundaries](https://secretgarden.co.uk/product-tag/boundaries/)
- [projection](https://secretgarden.co.uk/product-tag/projection/)
- [wake up](https://secretgarden.co.uk/product-tag/wake-up/)
- [chanting](https://secretgarden.co.uk/product-tag/chanting/)
- [energetic](https://secretgarden.co.uk/product-tag/energetic/)
- [waking up](https://secretgarden.co.uk/product-tag/waking-up/)
- [awak](https://secretgarden.co.uk/product-tag/awak/)

## Event Categories

- [Joyful Loving Events](https://secretgarden.co.uk/events/category/joyful-loving-events/)
- [The Most Intimate Events](https://secretgarden.co.uk/events/category/the-most-intimate-events/)
- [Joyful Living Events](https://secretgarden.co.uk/events/category/joyful-living-events/)
- [Essence](https://secretgarden.co.uk/events/category/essence/)