Thank you is not enough to express the depth, love & peace I feel within. You have been truly instrumental in changing my life ~ Mary Church Bampton, Oxon

Wake up now to your joy in being

How To Forgive Self & Other – Let Go, Live Light – discover The Power of Forgiveness & Ho’oponopono

Forgiveness is the essential self-healing practice for ALL human beings. Are you simply radiant light? If not, you need to know how to Let Go, Live Light.

Where are you in blame? Where are you leaking life force? Where are you giving away your power? Where is forgiveness necessary?

Where do you appear to be in separation from all that is?

Ask yourself these questions in quiet space. And trust the answers of your unconscious mind – for that is the place where all healing happens

Let Go, Live Light. How to Forgive Self and Other is fully explored in thie online course.

The human journey necessarily involves forgiveness of self, others and life circumstances – or a refusal to forgive. This course will show you how to heal your life regularly – with every day matters, and also with very significant and even life-changing issues.

Forgiveness is the act of making all one, of coming into one’s all-one-ness. Forgiveness is core work.

Ultimately, forgiveness invites a realisation of the wholeness, the non-duality, the oneness of Life.

Your forgiveness journey can be in relation to an individual, a group of people, a partner, an event in our lives, abortion, addiction, an accident, divorce, grief for past lovers, an ex-spouse, a business, one’s whole life story, something that has or is happening in the world, mother earth, the  government, the NHS, a rapist, a neighbour, the drunk driver, one’s body, religion, life, terrorism, a parent or parents, an ill pet, God, money, colleagues…..

The permutations are as unique as each human being is. But the healing principles are always the same.

Perhaps others judge you or blame you? Perhaps someone has left you or betrayed you? Perhaps someone has violated an agreement – whether this be a business agreement or a personal agreement? How do you know when forgiveness is complete? If you notice that you love them and accept them as they are, without projection or holdback. If you are left with a simple “You are me”. Then total forgiveness is done.

Perhaps you dislike the way you have behaved, or are behaving? Perhaps you feel like you have made a “mistake”? Perhaps you are rejecting of your body? How do you know when forgiveness is complete? When you have come into profound self-acceptance and self-love. Then total forgiveness is done.

The Essence of Life is embodied, en-joyed.

I thought I knew quite a bit about forgiveness, but this course took me to a whole new level of understanding and practice. Based on a live webinar series, now formatted for self-paced home study, it consists of four video presentations (including several guided meditations), a comprehensive work/play book, and access to a very supportive and wise Facebook community. You could do the course over a four-day retreat. Or do one module per week. I found one module per fortnight worked well for me. And once you’ve purchased the course, you can re-run it whenever you need – I’ve done so three times now, and each time my practice and awareness deepens.

This must be one of the best forgiveness resources available on planet Earth right now  Stephen Hancock, Buxton

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Your potential benefits from this Forgiveness and Ho’oponopono training

  • You will notice that old hurts and deep losses no longer create pain
  • You will take the learnings from situations that have been difficult, or simply uncomfortable, and these will positively influence your behaviour going forward
  • You will consistently follow any desire to change, with commitment to inner and outer action
  • You will be able to work with even your most challenging clients without disturbing your own well being
  • Learn to make any crisis into the opportunity it always is
  • You will strengthen and activate the connection between conscious mind and unconscious power
  • Your intuition and energetic sensitivity increase
  • You will truly understand the differences between forgiveness and justice
  • You will know how to live Ho’oponopono – to make a verbal sharing, from the heart, in a circle or family or relationship – ‘I’d like to say this’, ‘I need to say this’, ‘I’d like to get through this with you’, ‘I want to get to the bottom of this with you’
  • You will be highly motivated to use Ho’oponopono as an inner, regular clean–up
  • You will know and be motivated to use deep forgiveness healing with others, with yourself, with animals, with organisations, with money, with government, with terrorists …the applications for you are endless!
  • You will be confident about navigating any future event where betrayal or loss or sudden change is involved
  • The traumatic events of your life will be fully healed
  • You will live in clarity about, and fluidity with, boundaries in all settings
  • You will be able to work confidently with self-enquiry, ritual, chakra work and energy healing for your own life, as well as for the lives of your clients, if you are licensed as an EssenceTM Coach
  • You will experience how Total Forgiveness in relation to any issue or person brings you back to essence, to the peace of Being.
  • You live light, awake.
  • This Online course is stand-alone and complete.

This Online forgiveness aspect of the Essence work is essential professional development if you are a therapist, counsellor, trainer or coach in any arena. It is ongoing ‘energetic hygiene’ if you are working with people in any capacity.

It is fundamental for you if you are seriously committed to wholeness for your own life, and commited to consciousness in relating

On this ‘being human’ journey we are on, we live more gracefully knowing that nothing we hold dear is going to last, that everything changes, that structures dissolve, that life is impermanent. The dance, the challenge and the art all involve letting go. All there is, is Love. So an intelligent way to live is to Let Go and Live Light. The endless compassion of the human heart for this planet, and for all human beings and all the animal and plant kingdoms, is the most precious and stable thing we can know. Forgiveness work is Essence-ial in this.

What if nothing – no situation or human being – is unforgivable? What if life is inviting you to forgive everyone and everything? From the past and in your un-lived future?

Working with The Essence of Forgiveness is about healing wounding, learning from it and letting go. This is essential for emotional and physical health. Vital research has shown statistically significant links between dis-ease in different parts of the body, and particular betrayals and violations from specific types of relationships. The total, radical Forgiveness of this Essence course goes much further than letting go of resentments –which in itself is a beautiful way to live. It is also an act of aligning with life’s unconditionality. The gifts for your own life are vitality, excellent health, clarity, living on purpose, congruence in all actions, and knowing the natural birthright of co-creation with all that is.

In this recorded Webinar Course, you will discover and experience:

  • the 7 essential Stages of forgiveness for transmuting hurts, wounds, resentments and ongoing relating challenges into a store of life wisdom
  • How you get clear about what the true learnings (from a deeper place than mind) are, from any situation where Forgiveness work is invited
  • Deep healing to resolve the past and bring forgiveness into all your life circumstances and relationships
  • Receive the different rituals of Ho’oponopono and learn about the mental and emotional hooks and traps that can prevent you giving yourself this self-healing
  • Learn how to practice Ho’oponopono to dissolve any projection (dream) that is causing you disturbance
  • What to do in the phase between ‘no longer in resentment and blame’ and ‘not yet fully resolved’
  • 4 symptoms you need to know about professional burnout and how you reverse them
  • How to work with denial in yourself or others
  • Why Forgiveness healing heals anxiety, depression and procrastination
  • The ‘dark night of the soul’ and essential ways to thrive during this rite of passage
  • How ‘being with’ rather than fixing enhances your clients’ or family’s or relationship’s potential for transformation
  • Why refusing to move towards those you fear or judge keeps you, not them, stuck
  • The price you pay in health, vitality and success for holding on to grudges
  • The power of the unconscious mind in healing and transformation
  • The importance of doing cleansing work for you after you have worked with a client
  • The most effective approaches to dissolve trauma from serious events and betrayals
  • Your questions fully answered about this much misunderstood and core aspect of spiritual awakening work
  • The course consists of four modules. For each module you will receive a pre-recorded video and a written workbook, with suggestions for reflection and home practice. You choose your own pace for the course – perhaps a module a week, or a module a fortnight? Or perhaps organise a four-day forgiveness retreat? You will also be able to join a Facebook community, in which you can share your learnings, and ask questions of skilled facilitators. The downloads are yours to use for the rest of your life.

struggle becomes acceptance, duality becomes Oneness

isolation becomes Connection, resistance becomes Flow

dilemma becomes Clarity, procrastination becomes Intention

uncertainty becomes Purpose, confusion becomes Self-realisation

repression becomes Aliveness, co-dependency becomes Co-empowerment

ungroundedness becomes grounded In-spirited embodiment

judgement becomes Opening & Being, alienation becomes Spiritual Companionship

the lead of old stories & conditioned reflexes becomes the gold of Awakeness

discontent becomes Celebration & Gratitude for life

Life always takes care of you

Love, beauty, intelligence &  the possibility of connection are always there, whatever you think is happening

After 25 years of searching, I had given up thinking this taste of truth was possible for me.

Even though aspects of my story go on, it makes me laugh now! ~ Suzanne Bond, Bristol

Joy Hicklin-Bailey, the designer and facilitator of this programme, and the Essence trainings, has worked with clients and groups with simple and sophisticated aspects of Ho’oponopono for thirty years. The most harrowing circumstances and deep wounds have been melted in her own life, and in the lives of clients, in her private practice.

Joy is a qualified practising Jungian psychotherapist, Essence facilitator, hypnotherapist, Huna healer, an expert in ancient lineage work with ancestors and family, Time Line therapist, NLP Master Practitioner, and astrological counsellor. She is also an expert business/executive coach & trainer at management & director level, in organisations such as Centrica & Aviva, well-known charities & more. Go to Being Joy for more information.

  • You really helped me to identify areas where I'd been sabotaging myself and dissolve the limits-I cant even remember what they were!

    Alistair Smith, Norwich

  • Every time I work with you, I return home freer, more in touch with myself

    Jill Allen, Bristol

  • If you follow your bliss you put yourself on a kind of track that has been there the whole while, waiting for you, and the life you ought to be living is the one you are living

    Joseph Campbell, author

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