Tell Your Friends- Get These Benefits!

If you’re wondering whether friends and family might benefit from Secret Garden gathering and/or sessions, here’s a few responses to questions that I’ve been asked most, to help you decide, and the benefits that can inspire you to take action and let them know.

What benefits do I receive from this?

I hope you give yourself other Secret Garden gifts – & the energetic transmission, the nourishment, companionship, support, challenge, reflection, soul friendship, courage, compassion, love, truth too. Ideally, for your maximum benefit, this would be every 6-8 weeks if possible. There are early booking/2 person discounts on most. I would love to be with you again there. Do encourage family/friends/partners to attend with you. You will find huge benefits from having others in your life who are learning & transforming in the same ways you value, sharing your passion & commitment to consciousness & what is beyond that. THANKYOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR RECOMMENDATIONS. You receive a credit/discount every time you introduce someone new (of £9 for a day event, £19 for a weekend course, £19 one to one or couple sessions, £59 for a training)

Your public appreciation is very powerful and crucial in our online obsessed world. It really helps this work be sustainable & continue and therefore helps our loosely held spiritual community to thrive & go deeper together. This word of mouth validation is crucial to keeping course costs manageable for the future & is also a way to voice and validate your own desire to bring depth and soul into your own life. It is not something to hide or keep quiet about.

Joy really needs & so much appreciates your help these days with social media & networking which has replaced conventional brochures etc – please send any comment about the value of this work, to facebook, twitter, the Secret Garden website comments boxes & your email contacts.

Please pass the link & link on to friends/colleagues. Tell them to mention your name if they book. There are generous credits made to your account for those who book an event or session in Secret Garden directly from your recommendation.

Please ‘Like’ the Secret Garden page on Facebook if you haven’t already, at Secret Garden Facebook. It also helps if you can ‘SHARE’* any words from Joy or pictures from the Secret Garden Facebook page – or words from the Joy Hicklin-Bailey page- to your own friends* (*NB Liking a contribution (thumbs up sign) doesn’t pass any info on these days).

Please also distribute postcards (ask assistants) to your local cafes, therapy centres & meeting places.

It is very helpful if you create a link to Secret Garden on your website, (it is a huge advantage for example if you are a therapist (and therefore particularly to your clients) or indeed anyone if they see you have an ongoing relationship with a spiritual ‘teacher’ and mentor) and anything else you can think of, to build and keep vitalising this community. And how great might your life be to live it with family, friends and loved ones who share your passion & commitment to consciousness & what is beyond that. THANKYOU SO MUCH

What Can I tell them about?  
Have a look at Events All circles in Secret Garden are highly complementary to each other so this is a good place to start.

Essence training is a beautifully comprehensive, synthesised way to give you the awakening tools to release the body of old conditioning & create the fluidity in the body & chakra system that are essential to a vibrant, health, awakened life. It will make any spiritual practice much deeper & much more immediate. I’m an AWAKENER & have worked with people in the realm of deep transformation. including its invitation to freedom, for 20 years. I’m passionate about giving you the wake up calls, the tools & the deep openings to create the life you know somewhere is possible, the life you long for. Secret Garden exploration is always grounded. It isn’t about a hyped up experience you just have in the workshop. it’s context, its ground, is always The Most Intimate.

What if your friends or family members say to you ‘I feel really nervous, resistant & afraid of … Does that mean I shouldn’t do it?’ 

Here are a few suggestions you might include i what you say to them so they start to see how safe it is for them to participate. It’s high value in Secret Garden that awakening work is integrated into your ordinary life. It is designed always to support the life you live now and make it richer. There is no agenda for you to change anything. Al the choices are always yours.

Fear is the most common feeling along with excitement around Essence work and all aspects of Secret Garden. We’ve all had so many negative messages around our power and clarity. Secret Garden invites you to energise the pure, natural energy of life & it is essential rocket fuel for happiness & above all for your transformational process.

It’s all about baby steps.. incremental progress adds up to extraordinary, life-changing gain.  You control the pace. When I’m facilitating groups around the world to audiences on how to facilitate your evolutionary awakening, it’s often assumed that there is one glamorous answer or event in life that solves everything. There isn’t. Your belief in that will keep you stuck.

You simply need high quality, ongoing reflection, self-honesty, loving, awake community & safe space – which you get in this group – to risk going beyond the ego’s comfort zone. Secret Garden will give you that.

  • I know now what it means to 'make love'

    Elspeth Hurst, Lincoln

  • You are so so vigilant about constantly taking away from us our goals & ideals of becoming perfect or good & therefore deserving & loveable person we long to be (but already are!). I realised that I don't expect perfection from myself anymore & therefore not from others & so I don't get disappointed or offended easily which means I also don't feel 'tangled up in others' in that exhausting way

    Surahbhi McMellahn Ashburton

  • The ability to facilitate and hold a sacred space for areas of relating and personal development that is rarely, if ever, offered elsewhere. The feeling of safety and being held by the circle; the sense of wholeness felt by relating in a way, and with a depth, that is rarely possible in the usual course of living. The deep feeling of mutual trust, and the formation of close bonds within the group. Offering the encouragement to step outside normal boundaries, thus facilitating change that might not otherwise have happened.

    Graham V. Bath

  • Working with Joy has been very useful & rewarding for me, especially to reclaim myself as a sexual woman, to have permission to explore asking for what I would like and how to do that, to gain a much clearer understanding of the biological, energetic& psychological differences between men & women, all in safely held (though sometimes personally challenging) situations.

    Intimacy is a main focus of the work; it is never about performance but about presence, integrity, truth and honouring (self, especially). Having said that I have learned a lot of practical information & skills.

    Carole Clements, Bathford