Heal Your Past, Grow Your Power and Love – July 23 and 24

Heal Your Past, Grow Your Power and Love – July 23 and 24

Do you value freedom, conscious relating, living alive and awake, beingness?

Dive into ancestral lineage healing. This is very beautiful work. Each participant will have held space for their specific intention. You can receive support in refining that before dropping into your deep enquiry.

When offering support in holding the circle, or acting as a chosen representative, you will benefit from deep immersion in that which is beyond you, a dive into stillness and silence. Numbers are necessarily strictly very limited for this event.

You cannot live an awake life of presence and love unless your relationship with the past – both personal, familial and collective – is resolved.

These old messages live in your bones, your organs, your DNA. Light and love transmutes them permanently so that there is increased light in the being.

Until there is consciousness and love brought to these limiting codes are are passed down the generations, to your children and beyond, eternally.

This is an energy healing. Fundamental to all Joy’s work is the core principle that life is energetic and unconditional. Life simply responds to the signals you give out, whether those signals are conscious or unconscious. Unconsciously, we carry very powerful templates related to family lineage. We are unlikely to ever know the fullness of these, but ancestral lineage work, part of the EssenceTM work of Secret Garden, reveals to you what is most relevant to the particular intention you bring to the work. With the assistance of other representatives chosen from the circle, you can change the shape, the dynamics, and the felt sense in your own body, of limitations and trauma that has been passed down through your genealogy, whether through parents or much further back, from earlier generations or the collective. Ancestral lineage work is the root simple, natural approach of indigenous healers. It goes much deeper than the commonly marketed approaches to family healing, which have packaged a few aspects, and missed core principles.
Through ancestral lineage work, you don’t just step more fully your own life; you also release what is no longer needed. Your own children and following generations no longer need to carry that material either. You embrace a connection to many other lives, potentially your own past lives and those of your ancestors’. This brings you power. These ancient connections, when you are in harmonious alignment with them, allow a flow of aloha, love and energy into your own life and all its circumstances.

Are you ready to deeply live the truth that all that is real is the love that you are?

Are you ready to resolve your inner & outer conflicts, face current challenges and create more pleasure as love, doing what love would do?

Are you ready to create real & profound change by working deeply within your being with that which isn’t love and discover the awesome power & joy of your heritage?

Are you ready to heal old trauma from your own or your family’s past which you are conscious of?

Would you love to heal the collective wounds you carry in your bones? … then this retreat is for you!

Join the men and women who choose to sit in circles of healing and awakening because you, like them, value heart over mind.

Because you intuit that every human problem dissolves in the heart’s silence and that intelligent action, when needed, comes from that freedom and stillness.

Come join us if you are ready for what lies beyond the personal, if you value freedom to be over personality, if you are ready to drop your old stories and ideals for the sake of What Is.

Suitable for all who wish to live a chosen life, rather than a conditioned one, and for coaches and facilitators, for own exploration (further training available).
In order that all can explore their own ancestral lineage enquiry, places will be strictly limited.

Suitable for all who wish to live a chosen life, rather than a conditioned one, and for coaches and facilitators, for own exploration (further training available)
Mayfaire is our lovely, peaceful private home in England’s largest designated area of outstanding beauty. The Valley has never been intensively farmed, sprayed or built on. It is rare limestone grassland habitat and its ancient beechwoods have rich flora & abundant wildlife. The hillsides and the woodlands you can walk are known for many different types of wild orchid and lots of badgers & deer.  It is a place of natural abundance & strong, healing energy and is acclaimed for it exceptional beauty.
For some non-residential courses, we invite you to stay overnight on a very informal basis, & enjoy self-serve breakfast, & the hot tub with its spectacular views. Enjoy a peaceful, rural retreat & the benefits of being fully with the energy of the group and the transmission. This is highly recommended. See details below. And we get fabulous feedback from those who stay here. Please note accommodation is limited and is given on a first come, first served basis. 

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Catered Meals

There are fully catered meals provided for Saturday supper, and Sunday lunch. Eating together is an enjoyable way to relax & meet in a different way than we do in the circle.

Special diets

Please note your health and safety is always your own responsibility. Please make others aware at our gathering if there is food you cannot (as opposed to choosing not to eat) eat. Please bring any items you need to supplement the usual breakfast offered (see below) and for lunches and suppers.

If you must have your special diet catered for, you must select that option NOW from the drop down box above AND detail a) What your allergy is, eg wheat and eggs and b) Exactly what you cannot eat (give specific list) and c) I am vegan if applies (vegetarian food is not vegan-suitable), as a result. We will then be aware of your exact dietary needs & will pass these to the centre or non-residential event caterer. The info you provide is exactly and only what will be passed to the caterer so be clear. We cannot sort this after your booking here. You must eat the special diet meal provided and labelled – do not eat any of the ‘ordinary’ food as it messes with portion numbersPlease note your health is always your own responsibility at all times.

Non-catered meals

Please bring good food for Saturday lunch.  There are group room rotas for clearing up etc to ensure that everyone does their share to sustain our communal comfort and sense of being taken care of. The non-residential modules practical aspects are a great way to explore your inner landscape around the practical aspects of ordinary life.

Bed and breakfast Accommodation

Enjoy a peaceful, rural retreat & the benefits of being fully with the energy of the group. We get fabulous feedback from those who stay here. This is very much community living and guests find it enhances their overall experience to stay with us and many of the group. There is lots of laughter! and it is good and sweet in many ways to hang out in an informal way, enjoy the hot tub and beautiful countryside in free time. We ask you to be mindful that this is our home and to please take care of it as though it were your own. Informal accommodation for this non-residential course, is available, and recommended, at our beautiful, peaceful home 10 minutes drive from the daytime course venue in England’s largest designated area of outstanding beauty. Any catered suppers followed by evening circle are also held at Mayfaire. You can book b and b at the public event if offered (book this at the public event page) before or after this exclusive Retreat. If you would like to stay overnight with us for the retreat, & enjoy self-serve breakfast, & the hot tub with its spectacular views, please select one of the options available in the drop down box above. Please note if you are a couple or 2 friends attending together, you must always book your course places, catering and your accommodation options separately and pay separately. If you book on a partner or friend’s behalf you MUST log in separately for them with their name and password to make their booking. You confirm accommodation with your payment. Then make their confirming payment (with their name as reference) from your own account or from theirs. We have two cats so do make sure you are happy with that before booking.

SEE NOTE IN MY EMAIL to supplement these notes. Unless you book a bed option, you will need to bring your own bedding, sleeping bag or sheets (for mats or camping) if travelling by car. Only if travelling by plane, train or bus, & if you really need it and let us know in the notes booking box or your email reply to the Retreat details email, we can lend you a duvet and pillow but please bring sheets and pillow cases if possible. All accommodation options include informal breakfast, use of hot tub, hot indoor and outdoor showers and all sitting rooms. You need to bring your own plate, bowl, mug, knife, fork, & spoon for meals please

The breakfast kitchen at Mayfaire is vegetarian. Your bed and breakfast fee includes a plentiful self-serve informal breakfast. We don’t provide special diet meals but we do provide in addition to the usual breakfast foods, rice and soya milk, soya yoghurt, cornflakes (gluten free), porridge (wheat free), organic baked beans, herb teas, oat & rice cakes. Do please bring any other special diet ‘extras’ you might need in a cool bag. if you need to supplement your diet with meat or tinned fish, please bring that with you.

There is a fridge at Mayfaire & at the day venues we use, but cool bags are also helpful to store your food. If you have an allergy, the responsibility for keeping yourself safe & well lies with you.

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A note about personal responsibility – it is an ongoing experiment for us holding a group & living communally at Mayfaire with those who value this way of being. . We ask for your trust and care and flexibility, no complaining is the deal! Take some time quietly to yourself when you need it, let go of personal preferences for the sake of community and all will flow smoothly. We are exploring consciousness together so please remember and live the Hawaiian principle of lokahi -harmony with one’s environment – at all times.

We cannot be held responsible for any loss, damage or injury whilst you are at Mayfaire. Please take care of your own well being & safety, you learn & stay here informally as friends, at your own risk. We are sorry but we cannot refund b and b payment if you change your mind, or your own childcare arrangements etc go askew, as it takes an extraordinary amount of time to organize and set up and once we are full we have to turn others away.

You are very welcome to stay with us in this idyllic valley if you can respect & understand the requests & guidelines provided on your arrival, (and in the Mayfaire guidelines – link sent with your final joining instructions, which are similar to those of a retreat centre and designed for the enjoyment of all of us. Assistants are available to clarify any questions.

We love to share our home and the blessings of living here, in this beautiful area, with you all and welcome you!

Wishing you a safe and pleasant journey to the beautiful countryside of Gloucestershire and a peaceful, happy time til then.
Joy, Tim, Tiger and Beauty






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Accomodation per person Weekend Mayfaire 1 night

No Accomodation, £22 Your Camper Van, £22 Your Tent Camping, £26 Dorm with Mats, £30 Twin with Mats, £33 Single with Mats, £36 Single with Bed, £40 Double with Bed