What if any unhappiness comes from unknowingly working against life's true purpose and indeed its 'intention'? Part of waking up (the painful part) is more awareness of, clarity about, where and how you do this. However, once you begin to learn about life's inherent exquisite order and your own patternings and start to work in alignment withread more
In this response to a question, Joy points to the indescribable. The wonder of being. She talks about the 'me' which isn't separate from that wonder and yet appears to mask it in its quest to employ the strategies mind uses to avoid all that comes with the illusion of separation and the sense ofread more
Freedom, life, is agenda - free. The personality, in contrast, has myriad agendas. In a healing and transformational environment, the personality's fear of freedom, of knowing nothing, is ideally respected and acknowledged. And seen for what it is - the mind's desire to preserve what is known and seems therefore 'safe.' In this short clipread more
I was deeply moved by someone who shared -in a closed ongoing group forum in the Secret Garden community - 'I am less scared by the mystery of not knowing, so much is changing, like my cells are changing polarity. I'm giving up the fight...yet..I have had a lifetime of distractions in the form ofread more
Those who have not undergone full transmutation through relating (to spouse, partner or life guide) harden against their own humanity and that of the other through self-protection, opinions, blame, separation, judgement & over-thinking (animus in woman/female) or intense emotional reactivity, fear of containment, fantasy and chaos of mind (anima in man/male). The fling, or theread more
In this response to some great questions, Joy clarifies the differences between awakenings, witness consciousness and freedom is essential as there are many confusing teachings about these three very different things. The confusions can create problems for the separate self and some of them can have serious consequences in the appearance. Positively, in the appearance,read more
When the illusion of separation disintegrates for good, all there is is the sweet empty fullness of life. Enough-ness. The separate individual will deny things, or repress things, or pretend, in order to survive. One can only be awestruck at the creativity with which the individual sustains the survival of its mechanisms and projections. How theread more
Freedom is agenda - free. Freedom may still be drawn to work with apparent people in a healing and transformational environment. Here's what Joy had to say about that! Life is not serious. Simply, utterly whole. If you are drawn by this message, there is a day of dialogue, talk, silence and laughter exploring inread more
Why we sit in same gender circles in Secret Garden When we invite men and women to sit in circles of their own gender, it is because something is moving that asks for the particular holding and exploratory journeying of sisterhood and brotherhood, in the loose community we are always becoming anew (Secret Garden is notread more
Wholeness is unconditional love ..... it is the play of everything. Including the insistent and demanding nature of separate self. Realisation of the unconditional love of Being is not a new age 'love and light' fluffiness and denial of 'reality'. Pain or war or unconsciousness and all the shadows of shame, fear, guilt and rageread more
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What if any unhappiness comes from unknowingly working against life's true purpose and indeed its 'intention'? Part of waking up (the painful part) is more awareness of, clarity about, where and how you do this. However, once you begin to learn about life's inherent exquisite order and your own patternings and start to work in alignment withread more 
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