Posts Tagged: Joy Hicklin-Bailey

The Most Intimate – A Day

it may be seen that all there is, is unconditional love, the inexpressible wonder of What Is. This day points to life’s undivided reality & ‘your’ wholeness, respectfully exposing what clouds it…..beyond the dream of apparent reality and stories into freedom, beauty, innocence, the deep relaxation of not knowing, being. Beyond any words.

A Women’s Retreat – Unconditioned Radiance

Become wholly healed, radiant woman. A time to find nurture, support, a safe place to ‘sort the seeds’, inspire each other to live empowered & fulfilled as women, & celebrate – recognised & appreciated by other women, in your beauty & power.

She is in All – and in both Man and Woman

Why we sit in same gender circles in Secret Garden When we invite men and women to sit in circles of their own gender, it is because something is moving that asks for the particular holding and exploratory journeying of sisterhood and brotherhood, in the loose community we are always becoming anew (Secret Garden is not
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The Insistent Me

Wholeness is unconditional love ..... it is the play of everything. Including the insistent and demanding nature of separate self. Realisation of the unconditional love of Being is not a new age 'love and light' fluffiness and denial of 'reality'. Pain or war or unconsciousness and all the shadows of shame, fear, guilt and rage
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Return to Source

Embrace the healing power and creative potency of death and darkness

Being Honest

This is a guest blog from Tim my beloved life partner, who plays an essential part in Secret Garden both in the background between groups and supporting me and co-facilitating during them. Tim wanted to contribute on this subject that, as you will see, is close to his heart. Read more about Tim at Being
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We all have many things it is so easy to be grateful for - food on the table, shelter, a society more safe and stable than many. A beautiful practice is to recall on waking each morning some of the thing you are already grateful for. This will make real shifts in your vibration very
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Death, Loss and Endings

The bottom line This life and the apparent creation everywhere cannot be possessed. ‘You’ are not separate from anything that appears in manifestation. Energy expresses as every single possibility and it is constantly changing. Energy is a shapeshifter, a dancer. So everything you love, everything you want to keep, everyone you want to hold to
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