Posts Tagged: Joy Hicklin-Bailey

Mr Grumpy and the screaming banshee transformed at the heart

Joy refers to an invitation to notice where the masculine cuts across the feminine & how to give feedback Men’s holdbacks likely to be pride & resentment so likely to feel those as they explore invitation Mr Grumpy Woman doesn’t need to become a screaming banshee - Your power resides in your heart The grit…

Brendans grief We are with all that being human is

Joyful Loving is about beingness & relating to others You are not required to be or do anything a particular way It’s beautiful to be made love to & to cry We are working with all that being human is, you let us see you. To find out how Secret Garden could benefit you please…

Transparency & Introverts The importance of transparency

how transparency, telling the truth of who we are is healing & freeing for all but requires a stepping up for introverts who usually withdraw into silence to regenerate. To find out how Secret Garden could benefit you please visit www.secretgarden.co.uk

What do we do when we feel rejected or a failure

A man courageously voiced his pain about rejection by women (encouraged by men’s circle) but he doesn't believe his receiving of love in the training will translate to his life outside of it. Joy’s response… Love one’s own being If you are willing to fail you can fail then try again Mass hypnosis that failure…

The only way forward is in – living the shadows of relationship

The pain of resentment – go in, Know the shadow material is yours Feel the pain & sludge You are perfect mirrors for each other, nature’s invitation to heal the past in the conditioned self The mistake is to think it’s the other’s duty to do something to solve it – be your own healer!…

Why do men withdraw from women?

One reason for male withdrawal can be this. When woman is upset or disappointed in her man (especially over weeks, months or years) her attempts to wake man up to what disturbs her, are misguided if they happen when she is emotionally disturbed & driven by an agenda, rather than present & available to receive…