Monthly Archives: April 2015

What can thwart intimacy?

What can thwart intimacy? Denial and repression…the desire to repress life and control life, the desire to transcend life, the desire to die The importance of moving and expressing for YOU Drop the desire to fix it outside Come into full presence You can learn and experience so much at a live event - join…

A few reflections lovemaking in consciousness

Making love in consciousness, in being - paying attention to the most intimate Lovemaking as meditation What happens in transformation of man’s penis The pressure man can feel to perform, get release, please woman Man’s deep vulnerability Making love with no conditions

Mr Grumpy and the screaming banshee transformed at the heart

Joy refers to an invitation to notice where the masculine cuts across the feminine & how to give feedback Men’s holdbacks likely to be pride & resentment so likely to feel those as they explore invitation Mr Grumpy Woman doesn’t need to become a screaming banshee - Your power resides in your heart The grit…

Brendans grief We are with all that being human is

Joyful Loving is about beingness & relating to others You are not required to be or do anything a particular way It’s beautiful to be made love to & to cry We are working with all that being human is, you let us see you. To find out how Secret Garden could benefit you please…

Hawaiian Lomi Lomi Massage

A demo of the basic back strokes you can learn at a Secret Garden Lomilomi retreat. To find out how Secret Garden could benefit you please visit

Transparency & Introverts The importance of transparency

how transparency, telling the truth of who we are is healing & freeing for all but requires a stepping up for introverts who usually withdraw into silence to regenerate. To find out how Secret Garden could benefit you please visit