Posts Categorized: Joyful Loving

What kind of feedback deepens intimacy?

Posted May 1st, 2015 by Joy & filed under Joyful Loving, Videos.

It is a key life skill, essential if we wish for deep intimate connection,  to be able to ask for what we need or would like. Sometimes that involves telling [...]

What can thwart intimacy?

Posted April 23rd, 2015 by Joy & filed under Joyful Loving, Secret Garden, Videos.

What can thwart intimacy? Denial and repression…the desire to repress life and control life, the desire to transcend life, the desire to die The importance of moving and expressing for [...]

Healing core sexual wounds – a man speaks

Posted February 25th, 2015 by Joy & filed under Joyful Loving, Written Posts.

S - Feelings come up when I feel energy move in my body especially around my sex centre and if I feel activity there I feel ‘what’s happened here?’ I [...]

Interview with Joy Hicklin-Bailey

Posted September 20th, 2013 by Tim & filed under Being, Joyful Loving, Secret Garden, Written Posts.

Colin:- We first interviewed Joy Hicklin-Bailey way back in 2008, six years ago, just at the beginning of the Magic of Being, where we focused on her coaching work and [...]

Love may see

Posted June 12th, 2013 by Tim & filed under Being, Huna, Joyful Loving, Secret Garden, Written Posts.

Inspired by an exchange in a current training egroup When there is a rise to fight, in this dream, there is a danger of becoming entangled in the apparent other's [...]

The man who denied his balls, lost his balls then found them again

Posted May 27th, 2013 by Tim & filed under Being, Huna, Joyful Loving, Secret Garden, Written Posts.

Once upon a time not so very long ago, there was a man who longed for woman’s beauty and smell and sensuality in his life. He ached to bury himself [...]

3 things you might look into to deepen intimacy now

Posted April 9th, 2013 by Tim & filed under Being, Joyful Loving, Secret Garden, Written Posts.

I wrote an unedited version of this recently to the egroup of an ongoing group and realised it might resonate for some of you...All names have been changed. Some fundamental [...]

Forgiveness, Ho’oponopono, loss & the human journey – and your awakening & freedom

Posted November 16th, 2012 by Joy & filed under Being, Essence, Huna, Joyful Loving, LomiLomi Hawaiian Massage and Ritual, Secret Garden, Written Posts.

'You', awake or unconscious, are Love & Freedom. You are not the thoughts or feelings. You are not the conditioned messages. You are Life itself. How do forgiveness and ho'oponopono [...]

A testimonial from Rachel Irvine-Fortescue – Thank you Secret Garden

Posted August 6th, 2012 by Joy & filed under Being, Huna, Joyful Loving, LomiLomi Hawaiian Massage and Ritual, Secret Garden, Written Posts.

Thank You Secret Garden For years I have been working on and off with different teachers and therapists and healers, attending a variety of different workshops, but it is only […]

Big men are real enough to feel!

Posted August 2nd, 2012 by Joy & filed under Joyful Loving, Secret Garden, Written Posts.

Recently I was working with a couple for the first time who, by virtue of their background in therapeutic work and facilitating tantra groups, could have been expected to deeply ‘know the […]