Posts Tagged: intimacy

Why do men withdraw from women?

One reason for male withdrawal can be this. When woman is upset or disappointed in her man (especially over weeks, months or years) her attempts to wake man up to what disturbs her, are misguided if they happen when she is emotionally disturbed & driven by an agenda, rather than present & available to receive…

Healing core sexual wounds – a man speaks

S - Feelings come up when I feel energy move in my body especially around my sex centre and if I feel activity there I feel ‘what’s happened here?’ I can sit on it and deny that that’s happening.....but then I was thinking I feel it’s me projecting saying it’s good if i’m like this…

Interview with Joy Hicklin-Bailey

Colin:- We first interviewed Joy Hicklin-Bailey way back in 2008, six years ago, just at the beginning of the Magic of Being, where we focused on her coaching work and her own spiritual journey. This time our conversation focuses on what is going on now for Joy, and what plans she has for the future.…

Love may see

Inspired by an exchange in a current training egroup When there is a rise to fight, in this dream, there is a danger of becoming entangled in the apparent other's story. When another’s heart truth is truly let in, fully received, when there is an absolute resting in the truth that this is simply the…

Forgiveness, Ho’oponopono, loss & the human journey – and your awakening & freedom

'You', awake or unconscious, are Love & Freedom. You are not the thoughts or feelings. You are not the conditioned messages. You are Life itself. How do forgiveness and ho'oponopono help you realise this? Forgiving others, or yourself, for what you or they did, forgiving yourself for what you have lost, for what you don't or…

Big men are real enough to feel!

Recently I was working with a couple for the first time who, by virtue of their background in therapeutic work and facilitating tantra groups, could have been expected to deeply ‘know the territory’ when it came to relating and intimate communication. However assumptions are dangerous. Their marriage was in a very dire state. It was quickly clear…

How does consciousness in your lovemaking grow you?

The energetic exchange that happens in conscious lovemaking is a gateway to, and creates energy for, profound transformation. At this time, it is perhaps appropriate for spiritual values to be lived in ordinary life, to be celebrated in marriage or deep intimate meetings between lovers, rather than to live them only in monasteries and nunneries. The…