Posts Tagged: relating

What kind of feedback deepens intimacy?

Posted May 1st, 2015 by Joy & filed under Joyful Loving, Videos.

It is a key life skill, essential if we wish for deep intimate connection,  to be able to ask for what we need or would like. Sometimes that involves telling [...]

What can thwart intimacy?

Posted April 23rd, 2015 by Joy & filed under Joyful Loving, Secret Garden, Videos.

What can thwart intimacy? Denial and repression…the desire to repress life and control life, the desire to transcend life, the desire to die The importance of moving and expressing for [...]

What does it mean about and for you that you sit in a Secret Garden circle?

Posted April 18th, 2015 by Joy & filed under Videos.

Our shared humanity….beyond roles Being fully human and its price Making conscious miracles Don’t dumb down Feel deeply - but the paradox is the feelings aren’t the deepest reality Head [...]

A few reflections lovemaking in consciousness

Posted April 14th, 2015 by Joy & filed under Videos.

Making love in consciousness, in being - paying attention to the most intimate Lovemaking as meditation What happens in transformation of man’s penis The pressure man can feel to perform, [...]

Mr Grumpy and the screaming banshee transformed at the heart

Posted April 14th, 2015 by Joy & filed under Videos.

Joy refers to an invitation to notice where the masculine cuts across the feminine & how to give feedback Men’s holdbacks likely to be pride & resentment so likely to [...]

Brendans grief We are with all that being human is

Posted April 2nd, 2015 by Joy & filed under Videos.

Joyful Loving is about beingness & relating to others You are not required to be or do anything a particular way It’s beautiful to be made love to & to [...]

The paradox of beingness beyond stories & the feeling body + why intimacy feels so frightening

Posted April 2nd, 2015 by Joy & filed under Videos.

how instead of beauty & intimacy suffering can be created by the personality’s longing & lack. To find out how Secret Garden could benefit you please visit secretgarden.co.uk

What do we do when we feel rejected or a failure

Posted March 29th, 2015 by Joy & filed under Videos.

A man courageously voiced his pain about rejection by women (encouraged by men’s circle) but he doesn't believe his receiving of love in the training will translate to his life [...]

The only way forward is in – living the shadows of relationship

Posted March 23rd, 2015 by Joy & filed under Videos.

The pain of resentment – go in, Know the shadow material is yours Feel the pain & sludge You are perfect mirrors for each other, nature’s invitation to heal the [...]

Why do men withdraw from women?

Posted March 23rd, 2015 by Joy & filed under Videos.

One reason for male withdrawal can be this. When woman is upset or disappointed in her man (especially over weeks, months or years) her attempts to wake man up to [...]