Posts Categorized: Secret Garden

Why is it so hard for man to be The Lover? (Part 2)

Posted June 16th, 2019 by Joy & filed under Being, Essence, Joyful Loving, Secret Garden, Written Posts.

Guest blog In Part 1 we looked at the challenges we as men consciously and unconsciously face in giving up control and finding the flow of giving and receiving in life [...]

Why is it so hard for man to be The Lover? (Part 1)

Posted June 14th, 2019 by Joy & filed under Being, Essence, Joyful Loving, Secret Garden, Written Posts.

This post, below, is a guest blog from Tim my beloved life partner, who plays an essential part in Secret Garden both in the background between groups and supporting me, [...]

The Natural Reality is Undivided

Posted February 18th, 2019 by Joy & filed under Being, Most Intimate, Secret Garden, Videos.

Freedom, wholeness, cannot be 'got' or 'owned'. Nothing can ever be done to 'achieve' it. The Most Intimate message can apparently dissolve the trying. 'Me' dissolves because it isn't real. [...]

When the Snow Melts

Posted January 23rd, 2019 by Joy & filed under Being, Essence, Joyful Loving, Secret Garden.

A massive thank you is due. Love and respect to all who created such a rich, laughter-filled, deep New Year gathering. Radiant aliveness, truth, fierceness, healing, presence, tender care, accountability, [...]

What’s Strictly got to do with Waking Up?!

Posted December 11th, 2018 by Joy & filed under Being, Essence, Joyful Loving, Secret Garden.

Why watch Strictly when I love silence & stillness at the end of a day? It may surprise you - Strictly has much in common with Secret Garden's awakening work [...]

The Simplicity of Sensational Life

Posted October 19th, 2018 by Joy & filed under Being, Essence, Most Intimate, Secret Garden, Videos.

Freedom, wholeness, cannot be 'got' or 'owned'. Nothing can ever be done to 'achieve' it. The Most Intimate message can apparently dissolve the trying. 'Me' dissolves because it isn't real. [...]

Do you move with or against Life’s Intelligence?

Posted September 7th, 2018 by Joy & filed under Being, Essence, Most Intimate, Secret Garden, Videos.

What if any unhappiness comes from unknowingly working against life's true purpose and indeed its 'intention'? Part of waking up (the painful part) is more awareness of, clarity about, where and how [...]

The Sack and The Evening Dress

Posted August 22nd, 2018 by Joy & filed under Being, Essence, Most Intimate, Secret Garden, Videos.

In this response to a question, Joy points to the indescribable. The wonder of being. She talks about the 'me' which isn't separate from that wonder and yet appears to [...]

Fear of Freedom From Your Problems And Limits

Posted August 16th, 2018 by Joy & filed under Being, Essence, Most Intimate, Secret Garden, Videos.

Freedom, life, is agenda - free. The personality, in contrast, has myriad agendas. In a healing and transformational environment, the personality's fear of freedom, of knowing nothing, is ideally respected [...]

Your gateway into simply being?

Posted July 21st, 2018 by Joy & filed under Being, Essence, Joyful Loving, Secret Garden, Written Posts.

I was deeply moved by someone who shared -in a closed ongoing group forum in the Secret Garden community - 'I am less scared by the mystery of not knowing, [...]