Posts Tagged: communication

Awake in Being, the deepest gift of falling in love

Posted May 19th, 2016 by Joy & filed under Being, Essence, Huna, Joyful Loving, Most Intimate, Secret Garden, Written Posts.

Maytime….delicious abundance and vitality abound and Karen asked me in a blog comment to write about falling in love and relationship…... The word ‘relationship’ implies the negotiation between two or more separate [...]

Celebrate Yes and No

Posted October 3rd, 2015 by Joy & filed under Videos.

Allowing your yes and no fully, moment by moment, improves relating & deepens intimacy. https://secretgarden.co.uk/backup/joyful-loving-courses-and-events/

Cheltenham talk 3 – shift into sensitivity & transparency

Posted July 11th, 2015 by Joy & filed under Videos.

Dropping Sensitivity Transparency Showing up in our human Vulnerability does its own healing & creates intimacy The mind fears an endless ocean of endless unpredictability Do you know how to […]

Cheltenham talk 2 Boundaries

Posted June 2nd, 2015 by Joy & filed under Joyful Loving, Secret Garden, Videos.

Intimacy is dangerous Learning to set boundaries How boundary setting can create conflict Unconscious fear of loss Learning to communicate boundaries Looking after what is precious

Cheltenham talk 1 Intimacy

Posted May 26th, 2015 by Joy & filed under Joyful Loving, Secret Garden, Videos.

An invitation to the depths How personality resists & defends against it A meeting of two nobodies There is love or there is fear in embodied experience on the planet [...]

What kind of feedback deepens intimacy?

Posted May 1st, 2015 by Joy & filed under Joyful Loving, Videos.

It is a key life skill, essential if we wish for deep intimate connection,  to be able to ask for what we need or would like. Sometimes that involves telling [...]

What can thwart intimacy?

Posted April 23rd, 2015 by Joy & filed under Joyful Loving, Secret Garden, Videos.

What can thwart intimacy? Denial and repression…the desire to repress life and control life, the desire to transcend life, the desire to die The importance of moving and expressing for [...]

Mr Grumpy and the screaming banshee transformed at the heart

Posted April 14th, 2015 by Joy & filed under Videos.

Joy refers to an invitation to notice where the masculine cuts across the feminine & how to give feedback Men’s holdbacks likely to be pride & resentment so likely to [...]

Brendans grief We are with all that being human is

Posted April 2nd, 2015 by Joy & filed under Videos.

Joyful Loving is about beingness & relating to others You are not required to be or do anything a particular way It’s beautiful to be made love to & to [...]

What do we do when we feel rejected or a failure

Posted March 29th, 2015 by Joy & filed under Videos.

A man courageously voiced his pain about rejection by women (encouraged by men’s circle) but he doesn't believe his receiving of love in the training will translate to his life [...]