Posts Tagged: connection

Awake in Being, the deepest gift of falling in love

Posted May 19th, 2016 by Joy & filed under Being, Essence, Huna, Joyful Loving, Most Intimate, Secret Garden, Written Posts.

Maytime….delicious abundance and vitality abound and Karen asked me in a blog comment to write about falling in love and relationship…... The word ‘relationship’ implies the negotiation between two or more separate [...]

Cheltenham talk 2 Boundaries

Posted June 2nd, 2015 by Joy & filed under Joyful Loving, Secret Garden, Videos.

Intimacy is dangerous Learning to set boundaries How boundary setting can create conflict Unconscious fear of loss Learning to communicate boundaries Looking after what is precious

What can thwart intimacy?

Posted April 23rd, 2015 by Joy & filed under Joyful Loving, Secret Garden, Videos.

What can thwart intimacy? Denial and repression…the desire to repress life and control life, the desire to transcend life, the desire to die The importance of moving and expressing for [...]

3 things you might look into to deepen intimacy now

Posted April 9th, 2013 by Tim & filed under Being, Joyful Loving, Secret Garden, Written Posts.

I wrote an unedited version of this recently to the egroup of an ongoing group and realised it might resonate for some of you...All names have been changed. Some fundamental [...]

A testimonial from Rachel Irvine-Fortescue – Thank you Secret Garden

Posted August 6th, 2012 by Joy & filed under Being, Huna, Joyful Loving, LomiLomi Hawaiian Massage and Ritual, Secret Garden, Written Posts.

Thank You Secret Garden For years I have been working on and off with different teachers and therapists and healers, attending a variety of different workshops, but it is only […]

Big men are real enough to feel!

Posted August 2nd, 2012 by Joy & filed under Joyful Loving, Secret Garden, Written Posts.

Recently I was working with a couple for the first time who, by virtue of their background in therapeutic work and facilitating tantra groups, could have been expected to deeply ‘know the […]

Sex is Life, Life is sex – How does this help you have a rich and ever-fresh love life?

Posted June 7th, 2012 by Joy & filed under Joyful Loving, Written Posts.

Sex is Life, Life is sex. All creative expression in life, all beingness, has sexual energy at its root. Life is simply the interplay of masculine and feminine energy. Life […]

Who are you?

Posted March 4th, 2012 by Joy & filed under Being, Huna, Secret Garden, Written Posts.

You are simply, wondrously, vast, boundless, empty fullness, unconditional love unfolding. What is, is perfection. Including suffering & challenge & delight. When oneness is seen, the ordinary is a miracle. The most […]

7 keys to Intimacy

Posted June 29th, 2011 by Joy & filed under Joyful Loving, Secret Garden, Written Posts.

7 Keys to Intimacy arose to share as I guided a committed ongoing group into deep, alchemical meeting. What a wonderful, joyful thing it is to share with men and [...]

How to make the love that you are – physically

Posted June 3rd, 2011 by Joy & filed under Joyful Loving, Secret Garden, Written Posts.

You are Love. Life is love, unfolding in myriad forms. You deeply know how to ‘make’ love. Love, sex, sacredness naturally go very well together, whatever your old stories from earlier […]