Posts Tagged: nature

The body – love, joy, respect

Lomi Lomi brings a respectful, and joyful relationship with your body, similar to that you might have with a beloved animal or child. Lomi lomi heals and prevents stress. A large amount of the 'dis-ease' humans experience comes from 'stress'. I see this word 'stress' as cultural shorthand for 'dishonouring the body and nature'. Lomi Lomi…

Light and emptiness

I have been prompted to write this because of recent events in the Secret Garden community. I have so much respect for those who value their awakening 'process', commit to resolving 'stickiness' in their interactions, and take the openings they experience as a guide in future choices, behaviours and actions. And yet, life is wholly…

Living beyond blame

Do you act, speak, feel as though you are 100% responsible for your life? If so, then you respond authentically and with wholeness, totality in the moment rather than with robotic conditioning. Before taking full responsibility, many people play the role of the victim and blame their circumstances or other people for their circumstances and concerns. Such projections distort…

Loss and Wonder

In beingness, there is no problem. There is no suffering, no conflict, no lack. Only what is arising, full on! In the appearance, when a separate 'you' begins to relate to others and the mind has attached to ideology about how things should be or how people should behave, or has held on to memories, and to unwanted or  wanted…

Cheltenham talk 3 – shift into sensitivity & transparency

Dropping Sensitivity Transparency Showing up in our human Vulnerability does its own healing & creates intimacy The mind fears an endless ocean of endless unpredictability Do you know how to make intimacy and connection happen in your life?

Cheltenham talk 1 Intimacy

An invitation to the depths How personality resists & defends against it A meeting of two nobodies There is love or there is fear in embodied experience on the planet Beyond time Intimacy is to not know anything

What kind of feedback deepens intimacy?

It is a key life skill, essential if we wish for deep intimate connection,  to be able to ask for what we need or would like. Sometimes that involves telling another what we don't wish for, too. Truly vulnerable, honest feedback is a powerful way in which you create the relating life you wish for.…

What can thwart intimacy?

What can thwart intimacy? Denial and repression…the desire to repress life and control life, the desire to transcend life, the desire to die The importance of moving and expressing for YOU Drop the desire to fix it outside Come into full presence You can learn and experience so much at a live event - join…

Mr Grumpy and the screaming banshee transformed at the heart

Joy refers to an invitation to notice where the masculine cuts across the feminine & how to give feedback Men’s holdbacks likely to be pride & resentment so likely to feel those as they explore invitation Mr Grumpy Woman doesn’t need to become a screaming banshee - Your power resides in your heart The grit…