Posts Tagged: nature

Brendans grief We are with all that being human is

Joyful Loving is about beingness & relating to others You are not required to be or do anything a particular way It’s beautiful to be made love to & to cry We are working with all that being human is, you let us see you. To find out how Secret Garden could benefit you please…

What do we do when we feel rejected or a failure

A man courageously voiced his pain about rejection by women (encouraged by men’s circle) but he doesn't believe his receiving of love in the training will translate to his life outside of it. Joy’s response… Love one’s own being If you are willing to fail you can fail then try again Mass hypnosis that failure…

The only way forward is in – living the shadows of relationship

The pain of resentment – go in, Know the shadow material is yours Feel the pain & sludge You are perfect mirrors for each other, nature’s invitation to heal the past in the conditioned self The mistake is to think it’s the other’s duty to do something to solve it – be your own healer!…

Why do men withdraw from women?

One reason for male withdrawal can be this. When woman is upset or disappointed in her man (especially over weeks, months or years) her attempts to wake man up to what disturbs her, are misguided if they happen when she is emotionally disturbed & driven by an agenda, rather than present & available to receive…

Lomi Lomi and Living a Soulful Life – what might happen for you on a lomi lomi retreat?

When you book a place on a LomiLomi retreat you may not consciously be intending to heal deep ancestral or childhood patterning in order to bring light into your cells and embody beingness in ordinary life.  You may be more focused on relaxation from work pressures, stress-relief, physical vitality or maintenance or relieving bodily discomfort. You…

Walking in the man-woman shadows

Joy talking with a circle and to a woman, after a challenge from a woman to one of the men. ‘Your rage against man and not getting what you thought you wanted is glorious -and not the truth. Your rage against man’s ability to let go more easily, his ability to be sexual without falling…

What has Self – Love got to do with it?

This apparent world which is both real and unreal, both something and nothing, is simply love, aloha, unfolding. So to ‘love oneself’ and to always celebrate the precious life you are, is, in ‘your’ unfolding story, the first massive step towards being. There is no one, there is no separation, all there is is this,…