Hawaiian Lomi Lomi Massage

A demo of the basic back strokes you can learn at a Secret Garden Lomilomi retreat. To find out how Secret Garden could benefit you please visit www.secretgarden.co.uk

Transparency & Introverts The importance of transparency

how transparency, telling the truth of who we are is healing & freeing for all but requires a stepping up for introverts who usually withdraw into silence to regenerate. To find out how Secret Garden could benefit you please visit www.secretgarden.co.uk

What do we do when we feel rejected or a failure

A man courageously voiced his pain about rejection by women (encouraged by men’s circle) but he doesn't believe his receiving of love in the training will translate to his life outside of it. Joy’s response… Love one’s own being If you are willing to fail you can fail then try again Mass hypnosis that failure…

The only way forward is in – living the shadows of relationship

The pain of resentment – go in, Know the shadow material is yours Feel the pain & sludge You are perfect mirrors for each other, nature’s invitation to heal the past in the conditioned self The mistake is to think it’s the other’s duty to do something to solve it – be your own healer!…

Why do men withdraw from women?

One reason for male withdrawal can be this. When woman is upset or disappointed in her man (especially over weeks, months or years) her attempts to wake man up to what disturbs her, are misguided if they happen when she is emotionally disturbed & driven by an agenda, rather than present & available to receive…

Healing core sexual wounds – a man speaks

S - Feelings come up when I feel energy move in my body especially around my sex centre and if I feel activity there I feel ‘what’s happened here?’ I can sit on it and deny that that’s happening.....but then I was thinking I feel it’s me projecting saying it’s good if i’m like this…

Interview with Joy Hicklin-Bailey

Colin:- We first interviewed Joy Hicklin-Bailey way back in 2008, six years ago, just at the beginning of the Magic of Being, where we focused on her coaching work and her own spiritual journey. This time our conversation focuses on what is going on now for Joy, and what plans she has for the future.…

Love may see

Inspired by an exchange in a current training egroup When there is a rise to fight, in this dream, there is a danger of becoming entangled in the apparent other's story. When another’s heart truth is truly let in, fully received, when there is an absolute resting in the truth that this is simply the…

The man who denied his balls, lost his balls then found them again

Once upon a time not so very long ago, there was a man who longed for woman’s beauty and smell and sensuality in his life. He ached to bury himself in her arms and breasts. He longed for her caress. He wished to make a beautiful and comfortable home with her. He wanted to f-k…