Wishing you all a heart and soul filled Christmas season and a very happy new year

Dear participants and those who may participate in Secret Garden in future I write in deep gratitude for the love and friendship shared between us and offered to those I write to whom I haven’t yet met. Thank you all for valuing what cannot be measured. It is such a testament to your care and…

A response to ….Am I self-indulgent to want to go to a Secret Garden gathering again?

There are times in life when it is right, natural, appropriate and wonderful for you to focus almost primarily on spiritual ‘growth’, looking more deeply into life that western culture encourages and opening to the possibility of the no-thing and everything of being. Once you taste awakening, though it is clear in that awakeness that there…

Dare you trust the creativity and infinite possibility of the simple?

How would it be to ask yourself ‘what can I do to make my day or week or year simpler?’ How can I rearrange my current life experience so that it brings me more joy and less stress? Have the courage to trust simplicity and let it enrich the joy in your life. Hawaiian Huna…

What has Self – Love got to do with it?

This apparent world which is both real and unreal, both something and nothing, is simply love, aloha, unfolding. So to ‘love oneself’ and to always celebrate the precious life you are, is, in ‘your’ unfolding story, the first massive step towards being. There is no one, there is no separation, all there is is this,…

Who are you?

‘You’ –and your challenges – are vast, boundless, empty fullness, unconditional love unfolding. What is, is perfection. Including suffering and challenge and delight. When oneness is seen, the ordinary is a miracle. The most mundane thing we can ever do is truly extraordinary. Love is what ‘you’ are. ‘You’ are light. ‘You’ are simply life.…

What would be the point of you having a daily meditation practice?

Recently, I was drawn to remind the participants of the current Being With All That Is ongoing group, that if they are moved to make the worldly story better-and there is nothing wrong with that!-how helpful a regular meditation and self-healing practice is, however simple. The beginning of the day is a good time and if…

How does Hawaiian lomilomi massage benefit you?

Hawaiian massage or LomiLomi massage or Huna Massage, can bring very significant shifts in your life experience, allowing you freedom from old patterns of limitation and more of the natural happiness and freedom of being. Lomilomi will do all this for you - . Cleanse and detoxify, enhancing all homeostatic systems and organs of your body. ·…

7 keys to Intimacy

7 Keys to Intimacy arose to share as I guided a committed ongoing group into deep, alchemical meeting. What a wonderful, joyful thing it is to share with men and women in the Joyful Loving circle. It is such a privilege to work with these men and women. One thing which fascinated me the first…

How to make the love that you are – physically

You are Love. Life is love, unfolding in myriad forms. You deeply know how to ‘make’ love. Love, sex, sacredness naturally go very well together, whatever your old stories from earlier relationships or your current one. Deep ongoing intimacy and beautiful, powerful sex on a ongoing basis requires commitment, clear communication, education, energetic sensitivity and loving…

Why haven’t I progressed as much as I was expecting/hoping?

”Why havent I progressed as much as I was expecting/hoping. It seems that I have discovered and moved so many other aspects of myself (all good) but …” Joy replies, This Secret Garden exploration of beingness is not about quick fixes (I know you know this). It is about coming home to your nature; both as…