Who are you?

‘You’ –and your challenges – are vast, boundless, empty fullness, unconditional love unfolding. What is, is perfection. Including suffering and challenge and delight. When oneness is seen, the ordinary is a miracle. The most mundane thing we can ever do is truly extraordinary. Love is what ‘you’ are. ‘You’ are light. ‘You’ are simply life.…

What would be the point of you having a daily meditation practice?

Recently, I was drawn to remind the participants of the current Being With All That Is ongoing group, that if they are moved to make the worldly story better-and there is nothing wrong with that!-how helpful a regular meditation and self-healing practice is, however simple. The beginning of the day is a good time and if…

How does Hawaiian lomilomi massage benefit you?

Hawaiian massage or LomiLomi massage or Huna Massage, can bring very significant shifts in your life experience, allowing you freedom from old patterns of limitation and more of the natural happiness and freedom of being. Lomilomi will do all this for you – . Cleanse and detoxify, enhancing all homeostatic systems and organs of your body. ·…

7 keys to Intimacy

7 Keys to Intimacy arose as I guided a committed ongoing group into deep, alchemical meeting. What a wonderful 4 days I just shared in the Joyful Loving circle. It is such a privilege to work with these men and women. One thing which fascinated me was how even in this extraordinary sanctum of consciousness,…

How to make the love that you are – physically

You are Love. Life is love, unfolding in myriad forms. You deeply know how to ‘make’ love. Love, sex, sacredness naturally go very well together, whatever your old stories from earlier relationships or your current one. Deep ongoing intimacy and beautiful, powerful sex on a ongoing basis requires commitment, clear communication, education, energetic sensitivity and loving…

Why haven’t I progressed as much as I was expecting/hoping?

”Why havent I progressed as much as I was expecting/hoping. It seems that I have discovered and moved so many other aspects of myself (all good) but …” Joy replies, This Secret Garden exploration of beingness is not about quick fixes (I know you know this). It is about coming home to your nature; both as…

Why is this relationship hurting when I thought it would heal me?

To make love with a man or a woman is…..strong stuff. A very very strong bond is made whether it is known consciously or not. And that bond will create opportunities for healing, relaxation and nourishment and deep energetic connection which will lead to creative soul growth for both too. So human beings are drawn…

A response to a question …Do I create my isolation?

a woman speaks of her isolation returning after a massive opening to glorious connection with life during the two weeks in and after a Secret Garden circle, and asking how she ‘does it’ -this isolation- to herself…. Joy responds …Perhaps you don’t do it! …. Perhaps it simply arises, this moving in and out of feeling connection,…

The Alchemical Wedding

A dear male friend from an ongoing group wrote this in the egroup recently about how he used to think about marriage….”could I do better, would this other personality be a better fit, is she the right one,….?” and a dear female friend from the same ongoing Joyful Loving circle replied to him in the egroup…

Death and rebirth

It was satisying that Return to Source, a workshop http://being.secretgarden.co.uk/Returntosource.html I normally offer in November, could happen at Easter this year. Death fully faced always brings the resurrection. This is a journey I would love everyone to experience, including all our world leaders! Death is ignored or run from by many in our culture. 'You' are encouraged to cover over the…