7 keys to Intimacy

7 Keys to Intimacy arose as I guided a committed ongoing group into deep, alchemical meeting. What a wonderful 4 days I just shared in the Joyful Loving circle. It is such a privilege to work with these men and women. One thing which fascinated me was how even in this extraordinary sanctum of consciousness,
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How to make the love that you are – physically

You are Love. Life is love, unfolding in myriad forms. You deeply know how to ‘make’ love. Love, sex, sacredness naturally go very well together, whatever your old stories from earlier relationships or your current one. Deep ongoing intimacy and beautiful, powerful sex on a ongoing basis requires commitment, clear communication, education, energetic sensitivity and loving
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Why haven’t I progressed as much as I was expecting/hoping?

”Why havent I progressed as much as I was expecting/hoping. It seems that I have discovered and moved so many other aspects of myself (all good) but …” Joy replies, This Secret Garden exploration of beingness is not about quick fixes (I know you know this). It is about coming home to your nature; both as
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Why is this relationship hurting when I thought it would heal me?

To make love with a man or a woman is…..strong stuff. A very very strong bond is made whether it is known consciously or not. And that bond will create opportunities for healing, relaxation and nourishment and deep energetic connection which will lead to creative soul growth for both too. So human beings are drawn
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A response to a question …Do I create my isolation?

a woman speaks of her isolation returning after a massive opening to glorious connection with life during the two weeks in and after a Secret Garden circle, and asking how she ‘does it’ -this isolation- to herself…. Joy responds …Perhaps you don’t do it! …. Perhaps it simply arises, this moving in and out of feeling connection,
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The Alchemical Wedding

A dear male friend from an ongoing group wrote this in the egroup recently about how he used to think about marriage….”could I do better, would this other personality be a better fit, is she the right one,….?” and a dear female friend from the same ongoing Joyful Loving circle replied to him in the egroup
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Death and rebirth

It was satisying that Return to Source, a workshop http://being.secretgarden.co.uk/Returntosource.html I normally offer in November, could happen at Easter this year. Death fully faced always brings the resurrection. This is a journey I would love everyone to experience, including all our world leaders! Death is ignored or run from by many in our culture. 'You' are encouraged to cover over the
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Who comes to Secret Garden?

Many people who come to circles are ‘at the end of the road’ of a long journey of personal growth or exploration of advaita or shamanism. They speak of how they have never before experienced this unique Secret Garden combination of human vulnerability and realness and the energetic release beyond the personality’s limits into nothing and everything. An alchemical soulful fusion of
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What grows in a Secret Garden spring? A short tale of 2 ongoing groups

It has been a very rich spring in this Secret Garden! The groups have been as rich and alive and glorious as the humming of life all around in our gardens, countryside and wilderness. Two circles –the Joyful Loving ongoing group and the Being With All That Is ongoing group the following month –were so powerful
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Beingness

Beingness is.  when we add time or place we miss it. https://secretgarden.co.uk/events